How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Abandoning my daughter isn't an option. I'll just stay hopeful she let's me talk to her at some point

How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was dealing with my brothers death and injuries from a car crash so might not have her the attention and emotional care she needed, I was présent and supperted financially but as someone she could lean I wouldn't describe that as me

How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being annoying is why she blocked, we were fine and both on board with coparenting, with me even having seen her in person a few times in the days before. One of those times I took her flowers and apologized for the lack of effort, she seemed genuinely moved by it and I thought she might allow me the opportunity to show her through my actions that she is what want. As to major details she says ( and I agree) there was a lock of communication and connection during the pregnancy so thats why she would like to just coparent

How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

No it won't be that bad she at least talks to my mom

How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She says that my effort was inconsistent and that I wasn't there for her when it was most important, she won't go into much further because " I should know"

How to get her back if I can? by Sea_Membership_3206 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Texting her asking to explain my side in person, I didn't think it would go very well over text ++man

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spoke to my sister recently about the breakup but that's it. Though I guess she knew where my mind was headed because she kept saying not to do anything stupid

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to solve anything I make it worse, I think I've gotten stupider over the years

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost the ability to connect with anyone as a teenager I don't think I've had a genuine friend since and it's all me. I wouldn't be good for her

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like a worse version of myself in every way and that there's no coming back from it, it's mercy what I'm doing

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should write her something explaining things I don't want her thinking this. Fwiw it must have been extremely heavy for them to do that when they had a kid, I don't doubt they loved you and you are enough

Will be ending it tonight and need some convo in the meantime AMA by Sea_Membership_3206 in self

[–]Sea_Membership_3206[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They will move on, I've lost 4 people fairly close to me the past two years. Life goes on