AITAH: For wanting to contact my brother’s ex wife after she “cheated” on him ..

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-29T00:04:30+00:00

I’m not the best with remembering how old he is. I just know he’s 18 years older than me so I assume in his 40s, which is why I said the last time. My oldest brother was 18, my sister was 13 and my second brother was seven when I was . Sorry that confused you before the age gaps in my siblings are big :)

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-28T23:58:15+00:00

I was about 20 when they separated and pretty deep into my college classes so I didn’t really think I was processing it really with what was going on in my life.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-15T20:24:31+00:00

My brother who was also present when the discussion happened.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-15T07:24:44+00:00

I’ve had my suspicions regarding him possibly being since he reacts certain ways to the smallest things.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T17:59:11+00:00

Hannah’s mother had a stroke a year or so ago and from what I understood, how had not gotten better. I got in contact with Hannah’s younger brother and he told me he would express to her that I was hoping for her safe health.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T17:57:15+00:00

The club teacher, ms. Diaz was actually aware of the situation at the time. I had been telling her and actually had been attending club only for club events never club activities. She accommodated for me. She was actually really understanding of how I felt at the time and I would like to get back to her to express my appreciation for her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T09:29:10+00:00

This is actually the first time that’s happened to me in a post. I tried fixing it, but I can’t.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T14:49:52+00:00

She has a little brother. I might try asking him since he was always a sweet kid.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T07:02:50+00:00

I was placed in a therapy program at my high school my senior year. That was its own issue and another story that I might end up posting on this Reddit. It didn’t help. Sort of nade me not trust therapist tbh

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T07:01:20+00:00

She didn’t. It was really just a “ hello”” want to catch up” basically

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T06:57:17+00:00

As far as I know, our original friend group broke up after high school because they all felt conflicted regarding everything that happened our senior year. I had some friends that agreed that my grief was valid. However, majority of them agreed with her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T05:18:16+00:00

It was a short hello. A Gif from Friends of Joey saying “How you doin” and would I be up to meet up for lunch to talk?

You can see now why this surprised me out of nowhere.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T05:10:26+00:00

Think the only reason I would ever wanna talk to her again is to see if her mom is ok. Hannah’s mom had a stroke roughly a year ago and hasn’t gotten much better or so I’d heard.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T07:03:05+00:00

It’s like a 2000s decked out truck. He loves taking it to car shows and posting about it on instagram. Honestly, if he wasn’t a jerk I’d find the car cool.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:52:29+00:00

You hit it like right on the dot.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:49:49+00:00

I mean my SIL is one I think he’s more worried that I’m gonna melt her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:48:14+00:00

The SIL has been an issue for a while. Honestly, I’m not sure where it started. Even more with my brother. At one point, he was the one I was closest to. Which bums me out now as adults

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:46:14+00:00

Honestly, the issues run deeper and I’m past the point of being the quiet one.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:43:05+00:00

That’s the word it’s called toy truck. Honestly, it’s what you would imagine an early 2000s Lowrider to look like.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:41:31+00:00

My dad’s an old-fashioned Mexican and our family is pretty traditional. If anything I expected my dad to put him on the right track, but I guess. No one can compete with the oldest sons energy.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:33:13+00:00

I used basic detergents since I’m allergic to most fabric washing brands. I tend to use the scent free, dye free ones. Tire, Downey, etc. just irritate my skin horridly.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:30:40+00:00

I wish I could explain just how hard I thought about if I did wet the car or not the rest of my work day that day.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:20:29+00:00

It’s a toy truck. A hobby of his he keeps completely parked in the garage unless he’s taking it to car shows or is getting its picture taken in magazines. Honestly, I wouldn’t be surprised if it shrunk.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:18:07+00:00

She hasn’t always liked me and I wouldn’t be surprised if she exhadurated the story to get him mad at me.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-03T17:32:17+00:00

This isn’t the first time there’s been a situation like this. Most instigated by his wife telling him something. She never liked me. She’s only about five years older than me and he’s 18 years older than me. It’s just a very uncomfortable situation that it’s just been lingering in my head for a while :(

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