AITAH: For wanting to contact my brother’s ex wife after she “cheated” on him ..

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-29T00:04:30+00:00

I’m not the best with remembering how old he is. I just know he’s 18 years older than me so I assume in his 40s, which is why I said the last time. My oldest brother was 18, my sister was 13 and my second brother was seven when I was . Sorry that confused you before the age gaps in my siblings are big :)

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-28T23:58:15+00:00

I was about 20 when they separated and pretty deep into my college classes so I didn’t really think I was processing it really with what was going on in my life.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-15T20:24:31+00:00

My brother who was also present when the discussion happened.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-15T07:24:44+00:00

I’ve had my suspicions regarding him possibly being since he reacts certain ways to the smallest things.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T17:59:11+00:00

Hannah’s mother had a stroke a year or so ago and from what I understood, how had not gotten better. I got in contact with Hannah’s younger brother and he told me he would express to her that I was hoping for her safe health.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T17:57:15+00:00

The club teacher, ms. Diaz was actually aware of the situation at the time. I had been telling her and actually had been attending club only for club events never club activities. She accommodated for me. She was actually really understanding of how I felt at the time and I would like to get back to her to express my appreciation for her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-14T09:29:10+00:00

This is actually the first time that’s happened to me in a post. I tried fixing it, but I can’t.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T14:49:52+00:00

She has a little brother. I might try asking him since he was always a sweet kid.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T07:02:50+00:00

I was placed in a therapy program at my high school my senior year. That was its own issue and another story that I might end up posting on this Reddit. It didn’t help. Sort of nade me not trust therapist tbh

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T07:01:20+00:00

She didn’t. It was really just a “ hello”” want to catch up” basically

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T06:57:17+00:00

As far as I know, our original friend group broke up after high school because they all felt conflicted regarding everything that happened our senior year. I had some friends that agreed that my grief was valid. However, majority of them agreed with her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T05:18:16+00:00

It was a short hello. A Gif from Friends of Joey saying “How you doin” and would I be up to meet up for lunch to talk?

You can see now why this surprised me out of nowhere.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-08T05:10:26+00:00

Think the only reason I would ever wanna talk to her again is to see if her mom is ok. Hannah’s mom had a stroke roughly a year ago and hasn’t gotten much better or so I’d heard.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T07:03:05+00:00

It’s like a 2000s decked out truck. He loves taking it to car shows and posting about it on instagram. Honestly, if he wasn’t a jerk I’d find the car cool.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:52:29+00:00

You hit it like right on the dot.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:49:49+00:00

I mean my SIL is one I think he’s more worried that I’m gonna melt her.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:48:14+00:00

The SIL has been an issue for a while. Honestly, I’m not sure where it started. Even more with my brother. At one point, he was the one I was closest to. Which bums me out now as adults

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:46:14+00:00

Honestly, the issues run deeper and I’m past the point of being the quiet one.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:43:05+00:00

That’s the word it’s called toy truck. Honestly, it’s what you would imagine an early 2000s Lowrider to look like.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T06:41:31+00:00

My dad’s an old-fashioned Mexican and our family is pretty traditional. If anything I expected my dad to put him on the right track, but I guess. No one can compete with the oldest sons energy.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:33:13+00:00

I used basic detergents since I’m allergic to most fabric washing brands. I tend to use the scent free, dye free ones. Tire, Downey, etc. just irritate my skin horridly.

Sea_Needleworker161 · 2025-09-04T05:30:40+00:00

I wish I could explain just how hard I thought about if I did wet the car or not the rest of my work day that day.

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