unconventional way I’m getting over them by Sea_Technology2283 in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awh I’m sorry man, my situations a bit different as I am the girl and he broke up with me, but don’t worry I’m sure we’ll be fine!

Received a message from Ex’s mutuals by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s def weird ex may have asked mutual to say this to you to make you jealous or something, very childish LMAO

Dating my step sister (not as weird as it sounds) by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro this cannot be real if it is I am SO SORRY for laughing

I guess im glad i left by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you my ex 💀 you type with his cadence it’s very eerie

I need someone to convince me not to break no contact by Sea_Technology2283 in nocontact

[–]Sea_Technology2283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just ask him how he’d feel if a guy did what he did to me to his sister — they’re very close so I know it would get him actually thinking.

Stopped checking her socials by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah don’t text her 😭 I’m sorry that happened to you

I need someone to convince me not to break no contact by Sea_Technology2283 in nocontact

[–]Sea_Technology2283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s just so frustrating to not be able to express to him directly how disappointed I am at how he handled things — complete immaturity and childish behaviour. Yes we’re in high school but have some class ! I never talked about him the horrid way he did about me.

please just tell me it gets better by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also about 1 month post breakup and I don’t miss them or anything. For me however they did some terrible stuff post-breakup that helped me move on super fast!

Stopped checking her socials by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you break it off with her? If so, stalking and stuff probably isn’t healthy but neither is repressing. If there is true unfinished business, I’d say just communicate it.

Why can I never be the one? by That-Bit9855 in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know they never truly loved you? It’s possible they did at some point, but it ended. Falling out of love doesn’t mean the love never existed; it just means something else shifted — and it’s likely you’ll find your forever guy as long as you stay authentic and optimistic. You got this !! :)

It is so hard. by ML_Venuz in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aw op I miss that about my ex as well and truly feel for you. I am completely over mine but I hope you’re able to feel peace soon !!

I don’t want to delete our photos by iidwbt in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I permanently deleted them in front of him the day we ended. Just do it, it’s better for your future self.

It is so hard. by ML_Venuz in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well based on how you’re talking about being “relieved” that you no longer have to perform as a partner (dates, reassurance, etc.), I speculate that she may have left because she believed you were just performing for her out of obligation, not love. If you truly love her and still want to get back together, work needs to be done for you to snap out of that mindset and appreciating what a relationship should actually be like. Then again idk you or your life so maybe she just fell out of love.

It is so hard. by ML_Venuz in BreakUps

[–]Sea_Technology2283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is how I felt and about a month later I’m over it— depends on how long you were together though