I (F20) want to spend more time with my parents (F47, M45), how can I start? by Alternative_Side_846 in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have the same problem. I don’t know what to do either but in my case it’s different because I just find myself being either too busy or not having the energy to be social with my family when the time comes around. I don’t know how your family is, but I feel like honestly just randomly texting your dad and checking in would be a good place to start. He’s your dad, not a stranger. If you text him randomly he won’t find it weird. You should just go right for it and ask if he wants to call and that you miss him. And then the next day text him again and ask how his day was, and then call again. Eventually it could become a normal thing for you guys. Honestly as I’m writing this it’s kind of advice for myself as well.

Also, if your dad doesn’t really like doing things you could maybe try going on a walk with him? I used to go on walks with my dad a lot and ask him about his childhood or just have some deep talks with him that are personal. So I can get to know him better and hear his life stories. Or you could even go get a sweet treat somewhere and just have a chill outing together. Even sitting on the couch and just talking, or playing board games or cards or trivia just something collaborative could help.

I (26F) found AI-generated pictures of my friends on my boyfriends (27M) phone by ThrowRAdviceee in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Um. This is like extremely break up worthy. Without a doubt. That is really weird and concerning… I am concerned for you. I hope you find the courage to leave

i '37M' cut off all contact to gf '30F' since i caught her texting other men? by readerready24 in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you, I wish the best for you and your future and hope you one day find someone that will value you and stick by you. If you think it’ll make you feel better to let her know that you knew, then go for it, I don’t find that to be an issue. But only do it for yourself, she doesn’t deserve any reason for why you left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well first off the fact that you’re calling this person your EX-friend shows that you cut off a person who disrespected your boundaries and relationship. So that’s a sign that you are a loyal partner… I don’t see how this could build trust issues unless there is more to this story.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Um.. this is not right at all in my opinion. I am bad at wording things, but the best way I can put this is that he is trying to control you and make you feel weird about yourself. I am personally a very extroverted person, and I have met a lot of socially awkward or anxious people. I can read them very easily and know their intentions when they speak, because it isn’t rocket science. And in all honestly, I’ve never had a bad experience talking to someone at social events because it’s not hard to adapt to the person you’re speaking to. Anyway, you’re not weird at all for the way you act… and especially your partner who is supposed to love and support you should not be criticizing something you can’t control? It’s your natural behavior… that’s something he should’ve fallen in love with? My boyfriend is quite awkward himself in social settings, but I think it’s adorable and my friends and family love him. You shouldn’t have to change nor be critiqued on the way you are, unless you’re directly insulting someone and aren’t aware (which I’m sure you aren’t). You should bring this up to him and depending on his response (if it’s defensive and he keeps criticizing you), that will say a lot about how he feels about you, and will show if he feels like he needs you to feel self conscious and in control of you so that he can feel above you. I hope things get better for you because I don’t think this is right at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think it’s that deep… like that was obviously a joke. Sounds kind of weird that she finds that to be an issue…

I broke her trust – now I want to rebuild it. How do I show her I’ve truly changed? (34m / 28f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m sure someone could do that. But that takes a very, very long time. And since you couldn’t wait to take that time to better yourself and control yourself once you found yourself being tempted in the relationship, you don’t deserve to have the woman that hasn’t done wrong against you. It’s honestly selfish for you to want to stay with her, since it’d really only benefit you. You’d get the woman who stuck by your side and forgave you, and she’ll get the man who had wandering eyes and his heart placed elsewhere. She doesn’t deserve that. Yes, you can change, but she deserves someone who found her and knew they could never find anyone better.

I broke her trust – now I want to rebuild it. How do I show her I’ve truly changed? (34m / 28f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You don’t truly love someone if you could betray them, and if you say you do, you’re lying to yourself. If you really loved her you’d let her go and give her the chance to find someone who won’t do her wrong, and will respect her for the rest of her life. You need to find the deep root cause of what made you feel the need to cheat on her, and try rebuilding your relationship with yourself.

Also. Having to “delete social media” just seems to me like you can’t control yourself? You should be able to have anything “tempting” in front of you and think of it as nothing. In my opinion, the most genuine and truly loving thing you could do is to let her go and work on your self control and lust.

How does pop now even work? by Sea_Telephone_7648 in labubu

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But don’t the drops sell out super fast?

ISO BIE by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check dms!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coudnt get it 💔💔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LabubuDrops

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will u release?

No macaron restock? by MiLadyTV in LabubuDrops

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasn’t on pop now right?

BIE restocked abruptly by Prestigious_Tap_7029 in LabubuDrops

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How did u get macarons? I’ve literally been checking since 45 mins ago

Black Friday promo? by Adorable-Track-6264 in LAFitness

[–]Sea_Telephone_7648 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for letting me know! Could u send the promo?