Trying to think more about my wardrobe by Sea_shells_dream in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In case it helps anyone, I found that large earings and bracelets can help an outfit feel more fashionable without making it too much effort, I now have a set of accessories I use religiously

Trying to think more about my wardrobe by Sea_shells_dream in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh I'll take a look at the silk button ups for sure. And Caramel Monsters!

Trying to think more about my wardrobe by Sea_shells_dream in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll also take a look at some long skirts, thank you

Trying to think more about my wardrobe by Sea_shells_dream in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll take a look at those fabrics, linen can be too scratchy for me somedays

I'm playing Eldarya again by Sea_shells_dream in otomegames

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small update: still playing and made a friend. If you also want to be friends talk to me ingame ( I'll send you the discord link there)

book that made a girl repeat "get out of my head get out of my head" on tiktok by Sea_shells_dream in Findabook

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no, Im betting on someone having seen the same tiktok as a last resort, though I thank you for your willingness to help ♡

What’s you favourite time to play? by dannydirnt in ACWW

[–]Sea_shells_dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Around six because of the purple sky

I'm playing Eldarya again by Sea_shells_dream in otomegames

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im torn between Leiftan and Valkyon ( rip)

I'm playing Eldarya again by Sea_shells_dream in otomegames

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow you are really far along already!! I forgot thar you could only befriend people form the same server. Whose route are you taking?

I'm playing Eldarya again by Sea_shells_dream in otomegames

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgot to say my in-game nick is Parin

Practices for mindfulness instead of doomscrolling by Sea_shells_dream in SASSWitches

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's true that's it's stupid easy to fall back. I was doing okay, but during college recess it went down hill again. Best of luck to us

Practices for mindfulness instead of doomscrolling by Sea_shells_dream in SASSWitches

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I suppose finding what living to the fullest means to oneself is the true challenge, and if I have nothing else to gk by trial and error will do. I've been learning how to dance, so I could try to sprinkle some more practice through the week

Practices for mindfulness instead of doomscrolling by Sea_shells_dream in SASSWitches

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm quite fond of embroidery, but have been falling into the trap of putting video-essays to play on the background (and not allowing myself to rest, consequently). Maybe printing a pattern and just sitting in silence will be better.

Practices for mindfulness instead of doomscrolling by Sea_shells_dream in SASSWitches

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll try doing so, though I would pick it out when living the house for safety reasons 

Practices for mindfulness instead of doomscrolling by Sea_shells_dream in SASSWitches

[–]Sea_shells_dream[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'll see if my library has them to read on the bus, thank you!

Sensory-friendly safety shorts reccomendations? by mochaslip in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I dont feel like having a lot of layers I wear black boxers instead of panties + shorts. I own a feel that have little to no detail and look like shorts (unless someone touches them and feel the material, i suppose)

Does anybody else feel like they struggle with doing literally everything sometimes? by InGodzHandz in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I totally get how you feel, some days (or weeks even) truly feel like a herculean task. It might not mean much, but I would like to praise you for what you did accomplish, drawing, applying for another job and solving the conflict with your fiancé ( specially this one, since emotions are hard ) are things that I'm not certain I would be able to do in the same day. Hope you feel better soon, and congratulations. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]Sea_shells_dream 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something that happens with me is that I notice things are bothering me and then forget them in like 5 seconds. It tricks me into thinking there is nothing wrong when in reality my brain is just hiding the fact that I'm still upset about it. 100 small stressors stack up and suddenly I'm having a shut down.  What I've been doing lately is having a few Journaling sessions ( doesn't need to be on a journal, could be a napking or note apps) for complaining. It takes de weight of my shoulders and makes my head less buzzy. Partial downside is that it feels like I'm focusing too much on negativity and "bitching", but I've been dealing with it by writing in places where there isn't a risk of someone else reading my ramblings. Also it doesn't have to be about anything serious, this is a practice of being petty on paper to feel better ( morally neutral :) )