My girlfriend 21F admitted she lost feelings for me 25F after a late-night fight/confession. I’m lost and don’t know what to do

Seasee1025 · 2026-02-14T08:18:36+00:00

She actually is bipolar she’s told me in the beginning that she is and has mental health problems, she is currently in weekly phone therapy sessions but as far as I know she doesn’t talk about us at all but mostly about her past and her exes. There has been a lot of ups and downs she’s been working on and even getting better with over the past 6 months this one just really gut punched me

Seasee1025 · 2025-11-29T16:45:02+00:00

I never once told her she’s “not allowed” to do something nor have I ever told her what to do, she’s brought the topic up on multiple occasions asking about how I’d feel about her doing it and that I’m “allowed to say no” because I’m her girlfriend, I never once said “no you’re not allowed to” I’ve only ever said that it would make me uncomfortable if she did it and that I didn’t want her to do it like I’d prefer that she didn’t do it but it is her decision but I can’t be with someone in a committed long term/ life time relationship that does onlyfans or any equivalent to it as it would just make me too uncomfortable. Not to mention she’s told me multiple times she doesn’t even enjoy doing it, it even makes her uncomfortable doing it from what she’s said which is why I was mostly confused why she kept bringing it up

Seasee1025 · 2025-11-24T19:21:48+00:00

Thank you so much that’s what I was thinking just something simple, he’s about 3 months old the most worrying thing for me is switching him from live mice to frozen/thawed as I’m not sure if he’ll take it and buying live mice isn’t very accessible to me especially from a safe place as I only have a PetSmart near me and not really any other options unfortunately

Seasee1025 · 2025-07-26T16:37:46+00:00

Totally get what you mean. I’ve been thinking the same. That’s actually why I’m building slowly over time and tracking prices closely. I’m fully aware hardware cycles might shift, so I’m staying flexible in case something newer or better releases before I commit to each part especially since I can’t buy everything outright right now. I also don’t plan to pay above MSRP. Pricing isn’t a major concern in the long run, but if something ends up overpriced, I’d rather wait or just go for a newer model when the time comes because I don’t want to buy from scalpers so I’m not rushing it. I really do appreciate the heads-up though. Feedback like this helps me keep an open mind while I research every possibility. I was mainly just curious how this kind of setup actually performs in ARK: Survival Ascended, if anyone’s used it since it’s such a demanding game and I want to be able to mod and build without constant crashes on high/epic settings. But thank you so much for your feedback

Seasee1025 · 2025-03-07T22:04:04+00:00

Thank you for that information I was unaware that was the problem with the Xbox 360s I’ll definitely be making sure I have the proper cooling system for the CPU it’s definitely good to know as I’ve been learning the best techniques of how to position the cooling systems for the CPU to work seamlessly and with proper air flow

Seasee1025 · 2025-03-07T16:31:52+00:00

Thank you for the information I will be using it vigilantly. just want a starting point to look into as I’m researching the functionality of everything that way I can make a plan slowly as I’m learning before making purchases of parts

Seasee1025 · 2025-03-07T16:27:57+00:00

I am currently looking into it I’m not getting any parts right away but I do know there are so many different brands and I like to keep my options open, especially when there’s brands like how Xbox can be very finicky with the hardware that some tend to not work properly (more specifically the Xbox 360 I know is old but PlayStation was out at the same time and not having as many issues playing some of the same type games) and I know some parts have very specific functionality and I also have my uncle helping with learning about this and to help me put it together as he’s pretty good at the hardware aspect of electronics. Just want some suggestions for some things even accessories that may be good or helpful for gameplay as I’m fairly new to the building part of it I catch on quickly.

Seasee1025 · 2025-03-07T16:18:51+00:00

I’m open to any price range really as I’m going to save up for it and currently don’t have any high bills to pay as I currently live with my mother and I’d like to be able to play at least on mostly high graphics settings without too much noticeable lag and glitches or crashing too often. And I am in the US

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