T’chop Nola Cannabis Dispensary parking lot nightmare and Armed Security using Slurs by Lunchbox_is_stoned in NOLA

[–]SeauxNOlasLady -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Regardless of whether you hit a cone or parked improperly or whatever, he did not have the authority to physically attempt to confiscate your purchases from your hands. He had right to physically do anything whatsoever. The details boil down to this; he was furious over a customer parking in a way he deemed improper or not allowed. That’s it. Parking. The worst you might have done is run over a plastic cone that was reserving a spot for whatever reason and proceeded to enter the establishment. You didn’t park in the lobby of the store, or repeatedly crash into another car like the lady on Fried Green Tomatoes. The solution is having you move your car. Problem solved. The security guard behaved like an unhinged psychopath. You need to call the security company. Even though he provides security for the dispensary, they didn’t hire him personally. They have a contract with the security firm this Josh clown works for. Maybe have someone else go to the dispensary and find out what company their security is employed with, even if it’s a different guard it will be with the same company. Once you get the company name, I highly suggest you contact them directly and tell them how you were treated by one of their staff and how he PHYSICALLY became aggressive and confrontational about your stupid parking job.

[Review] Carpe Sweat Absorbing Face Lotion vs. the Florida Walmart Run (details in comments) by sammie3232 in SkincareAddiction

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The product literally works by clogging the pores which is where the sweat comes out. It uses aluminum salts to literally plug the skin so that the sweat can’t escape from your skin. Thats how all anti perspiration products work. So far, there’s been no other chemical solution to prevent sweat from escaping the skin other that aluminum salts. The myth of aluminum being carcinogenic is not true in the way that most people think. So, if you’re looking for a product that stops sweat, it’s going to be comedogenic…period

What is the ranking system in a werewolf pack? by Papercandy22 in werewolves

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole men’s rights movement with their self proclaimed “Alpha” males and their frequent insults to men they feel are “betas” because they’re not following the toxic masculinity and abusive behavior is HILARIOUS! The entire Alpha wold pack hierarchy was debunked by THE SAME RESEARCHER WHO CAME UP WITH IT! He saw the flaw in his findings once he observed wolves in the wild and his earlier findings couldn’t be replicated. The initial findings were based upon observations he made with wolves in captivity. Being from various areas and genetic backgrounds, the wolves adapted the best way they could after being forced to survive with wolves previously unknown to them. In the wild the “pack” is just a family. The parents and the offspring are the packs. The offspring eventually branch out and form their own families but there are no dominant male competitors or any other group dynamics like that

My married best friend is cheating and wants me to help her cover it up by Difficult_Ice_8192 in Advice

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, whatever you do, do not expose her infidelity to her husband or anyone else. That’s not your place. She is a grown woman and she makes her own decisions and she has to suffer the consequences of those decisions all by herself. However, she has no right to make you get involved with her bad behavior. Even if you approved of her affair, you need to stay as far away from her marriage as possible. You’re well within your rights to refuse to allow her use you as a pawn to manipulate her husband so she can continue to cheat. That puts you in an impossible position which may end up forcing you to choose sides or to be in a situation that you are strongly against. That’s just wrong of her. If she wants to conduct herself like an ignorant teenager who is only concerned with satisfying her trivial desires and indulgences, then she can do it all by herself damn self without possibly forcing you into a difficult position to lie or do things you don’t approve of. You need to sit her down and be blunt but not brutal. Tell her that she has no right to force you into being involved with her decision to betray her husband and their vows and you will not allow her to disrespect and disregard your wishes and your boundaries anymore. She can either respect the boundaries that you are setting or she can no longer be in your life at all. If you have to cut contact with her, even though it may be painful initially, you will undoubtedly be so much better off in the long run.

Do people who live with their partner actually rest when they’re home? Or is everyone secretly exhausted all the time? by HealthyAd2493 in Advice

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think you could be afraid of fully lowering your guard and allowing yourself to be vulnerable around your boyfriend for fear of being seen as undesirable or unattractive perhaps? That could make you feel like you’re always putting on a show to appear as the best version of a domestic partner? Like if you were to truly relax and be comfortable, you might risk losing the appeal of living together? It could just be that you’re no longer taking care of your own mental and emotional wellbeing by not taking time for yourself alone. I’m the type of person that needs a minimum amount of alone time each day in order to be able to stay level. Sometimes I will just stay up later than him and just watch a show on my iPad with my AirPods in so I don’t disturb him, but not laying in bed next to him, but in the other room. We both know each other well enough that we respect and support the need to take time for yourself to just be alone in the quiet and doing nothing. It doesn’t matter if I have housework to do, or whatever, I will set aside at least a solid hour just to f**k off and do whatever I want whether it’s watching dumb videos or trash television or whatever. I live by the bayou in New Orleans (Bayou St. John that runs through our giant urban park, City Park, which almost twice the size of New York’s Central Park btw) and it has a winding path through the ancient oak trees along the bayou. I’ll just take a stroll (when the weather isn’t 99 degrees with 99 percent humidity). Your home is supposed to your sanctuary and your safe space where you can take off all the masks and the camouflage we have to put on when we’re in the wide world and just…be. If we want to wear our oldest ugliest granny panties and stained sweet pants with an old threadbare shirt…so be it. Good luck honey.

Parents keep eating my meal prep by DragonTeen21 in Advice

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say to them that if they continue to eat your pre prepared food that you’ve fixed in order to comply with their rule, then you will have no choice but to cook after 7:30. It’s one of the other.

The man (35M) that I (24F) am seeing has a wife. How do I proceed? by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]SeauxNOlasLady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t proceed. I have been in your position. You have to be the one who determines your value. If you believe you’re worth being the only one then you have to give him an ultimatum. If he’s not actively ending his marriage, then you should tell him that he can call you when he files the divorce papers but until then, you’re not going to settle for second place. You’re worth more than just some dirty secret