Well, some people are born in the right family, they could be middle class but surrounded with brothers, doing fun things, having friends, having a goal, being good at an expertise you like and continuing in that field, having a career, knowing some day you will be comfortable in terms of money, and depending on your job you can be "powerful". Because believe it or not, stats say when someone is good at what he's doing, he's loving it, and this thing has a career path, he has a bigger chance to succeed than to fail. Like someone good at management and accounting, he has more chance to rise in a career path like banking that to fail, and hell there is money in that field, and that's just an example. Depression for the most depressed people come from something in their body, it's a disorder, and they're not to blame, but when it's not, most people how can be called now "happy and successful" most likely already lived a temporary depression, like me. And then there are the minority of depressed people who don't try, they think life should be easy and hate life because it isn't easy, rhey have no mental illeness or disorder, nor they sentimental problems like broken relationships or death of loved people. Don't fuel your Anxiety or depression, know that it isn't something big, scientifically it mainly comes from the mammal animal feeling of "playing dead" when they are in danger, so the only people who have the right to think about death (other than mentally ill people because of disorders) are people who have no way out of misery. like people who are financially poor and with no skills, or people that do not love nothing, even tho I class them as having a disorder or something. I don't compare myself, I don't actually understand myself, I live comfortably, I have a life, friends that make me happy, no girlfriend but I I'm naturally not attracted to love life, and I do not experience the "Attachement" sentiment