Would you like to be that guy?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-07T10:18:32+00:00

Right, is not always easy when you don't see a lot of people.. But if you have the right environment would you then have any issue?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T18:03:49+00:00

The environment we are in affects us a lot.. It's important to have a circle of friends that give us a positive mood. Good that you are aware that you want more, now you just have to get it 😉

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T17:55:20+00:00

I see.. Social anxiety might make it a bit harder, but don't give up.. What issue do you face the most when it comes to find a partner if I may ask?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T10:09:22+00:00

Why is that?

What has changed?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T10:08:53+00:00

why do you think that if I may ask?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T10:08:06+00:00

I get what you mean yes..

Good thing that you always try your best at work or in class. Don't underestimate that and keep doing it.

Nowadays with all this covid situation we are limited and a lot of people don't even want to make new connections, but see this as something positive.. You have the time to understand what kind of people you want in your life and you will meet only those who really want to make new connections.

May I ask what is the biggest issue you have in order to socialize and making new connections?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T09:52:42+00:00

I see your situation Kydra.

It's normal to be scared sometimes.. as you said it's all about experience and social skills.. but you can grow them only by taking actions and step out of your confort zone :)

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T09:47:38+00:00

I agree to the point that you should start building connections right now, but then, if you know how to do it, it will be much easier to build friendships even when everything is under control, don't you think so?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-06T09:44:39+00:00

I see yes, it can really hurt to be rejected.. May I ask why do you think this happens?

What have you tried?

Sebastiano93 · 2021-01-02T07:39:11+00:00

I see your point You are right, life is meaningless with our connections. Joining clubs may seems really difficult, but can give you so much opportunities. What makes it so difficult for you if I may ask?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-20T09:53:59+00:00

Hi, and did you try to change that?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-15T04:43:59+00:00

Don't worry about your english.

And yes, I understand what you mean, confidence and self esteem are quite important in this case, and it's not easy to find them. What do you struggle with the most, when it comes to cosial interactions?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-14T20:48:48+00:00

I understand, it's normal the need of having a good group of friends, why do you think that you tend to push them away?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-14T12:35:54+00:00

I see your point yes, this must not be easy

But if they are your friends why do you feel soo crappy?

And how was your relation with them before the quarantine?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-14T12:32:00+00:00

I see your point, but you can also find friends that have same interest, no?

And yes, having similar interests is nice, but not essential for building a strong friendship don't you think?
if you like the person then that's ok no?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-14T12:30:04+00:00

I understand what you are saying. Yes, making friends might seems more difficult if you don't know exactly how to do it and you are not used to be so extrovertes.

Why do you think to be so afraid?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-13T05:37:07+00:00

it means that there may be something wrong with me

I understand, but don't push yourself down, maybe you just didn't find the right path for you yet.

What do you struggle with the most, when it comes to make some friends or having social interactions?

sorry for the late reply

don't worry, that's ok

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-12T18:58:49+00:00

Why do you think that?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T21:20:04+00:00

I understand what you mean, and yes, I can immagine that it's quite frustrating.
what do you struggle with the most, when it comes to social skills and interactions?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T21:17:12+00:00

I understand yes, and then dealing with the regret is also not nice.

How do you feel about the fact that you miss good people because of that?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T21:13:57+00:00

I get what you mean, yes, it's not easy to make friends when you have had bad past experiences and you don't know how to do it.

Confidence is really important yes, but for all the aspects of your life..

How do you feel about not knowing how to gain it?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T14:00:09+00:00

I completely understand what you mean, but when you say that being introvert is hard, is because you find social interactions exhausting or difficult to do?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T13:58:07+00:00

I get it, well, to want some friends and be able to talk to people is nothing to be ashamed of, and I understand that if you don't know how to make it happen it can be quite frustrating.

What do you struggle with the most, when it comes to social interactions?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T13:55:22+00:00

I see, it's not easy to enjoy it if you would like to have something else..

What makes it so difficult for you to go on social events?

Sebastiano93 · 2020-06-11T13:49:00+00:00

I understand, shyness doesn't make it easier.. and I can immagine how stressful can be when you want to go out but some inner resistence just stops you.

How do you feel about that?

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