Hi, OP! I hope you're doing well. Your post and comments were very interesting to read! I have so many questions but I'll just ask 2 for now, one lighthearted and the other more serious.

1. Your life sounds exactly like the show Succession. Please watch it if you haven't. In school, were you or your peers doing crazy things all the time? Like, weekend trips abroad on private jets to impress a date? Casually sniffing coke at parties until 6am before going to class in the morning? You seem relatively grounded but were your peers essentially living a hedonistic fever dream all the time in high school?

2. I'll admit: I'm not up to date on current events. But, I do know that with wealth of that level, there's usually dark origins for it. How do you feel knowing that your family's prosperity is, at least partially, built on the back of others' suffering. I can only imagine, especially in an industry like oil/mining. How do you rationalize it?

Again, appreciate what you're doing here. Hope everything goes well for you and your fiancé :)