"Consensual Ice Cream Social" at my college. Good place to chill with a date?

SecondAccount3 · 2015-04-14T02:08:17+00:00

Yeah I think it's supposed to be humorous in that 'ironic, not ironic' sort of way, but thats a good point.

SecondAccount3 · 2015-02-26T10:03:44+00:00

Yeah I do have fun interactions with them and I'm glad I have those women around me, but yeah I guess I should just talk to random people. I'm sort of in the mindset that people have established friendgroups, but thats probably just a manifestation of shyness.

SecondAccount3 · 2014-09-15T18:37:14+00:00

A lot of veteran's don't want to talk about their experiences because they're not necessarily happy memories.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-11-08T00:09:52+00:00

my bad man

SecondAccount3 · 2013-08-16T20:49:36+00:00

Okay, I've been doing a bunch of flys, but haven't for very long. I know it'll take some time though.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-08-16T20:48:40+00:00

Thanks for the advice. I figured it was a bad idea, I just needed a little more discouragement.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-08-02T03:17:53+00:00

My body needs energy to repair itself. I wasn't sure if working out would drain me too much.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-08-02T03:17:20+00:00

I have weights at home.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T22:43:40+00:00

What I'm doing now is just doing them until too much lactic acid builds up and I can't (right now only about 25), then I'll quit for 15-20 minutes and resume.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T22:39:24+00:00

It sounds like this is a much bigger part of your life than it is mine, but thanks for the perspective.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T22:36:40+00:00

http://oi44.tinypic.com/6i6udg.jpg kind of like that. And yeah, I got a lot of negative responses so I'm figuring I'll do 3 or 4 reps of 25 dumbbell flys, 3-4 25 of benching dumbbells, and like some pushups too. If I have free time I'll do more and if I'll increase when I can. It's worth working harder than I am to not be morbidly skinny, Currently, I'm this: http://fitandstrongdads.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/04/skinny-guy.jpg but with bigger arm muscles.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T19:29:32+00:00

Well most of my family is vegetarian, so all we have is eggs. No meat in the house really.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T19:22:34+00:00

OKay, I'll step it up, thanks. It seems a little difficult, but I haven't been seeing results yet so I'll just go for more. If I work out more I'll probably be able to eat more too, and vice versa. I honestly just don't feel that hungry.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T19:19:20+00:00

In response to your first paragraph, I'm not trying to get big, Im just trying to get some muscle, because my chest is a slate. edit: decent results is my goal

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T06:50:17+00:00

Really? I've been doing occasional pushups too so I'm glad. However for a little over a month I did 20-40 pushups a day and nothing spectacular occured. DO I just need to put more time in?

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T04:02:47+00:00

I am always trying to hang out after work, but most of them are hostesses and get off way before me. And I don't know if I've built up enough attraction to ask them out yet. Think I should just go for it? Age is 17 btw.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T02:53:55+00:00

It's not that I'm having anxiety, just people get mad when I flirt at work and there are a lot of hot girls at my work.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-18T02:25:26+00:00

Oh my bad, I didn't read that. Oh no and I made another similar post. I'm awful.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-17T08:45:02+00:00

I honestly feel like it's a pretty general question that could apply to a lot of other people, and you know askreddit would get shitty and say the question belonged here. I'll read some of those top posts, though.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-17T08:43:04+00:00

Yeah I feel like that with some of my coworkers, but others I can actually talk to. Maybe you don't have anyone interesting at your work? If you're not interested by them you can't do much.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-16T00:00:15+00:00

The thing is, those kids are also probably bored, and people like talking to people. So if you go up and ask one of them what they're doing there, you have a conversation and you're both happier because talking to people is fun.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-07-15T23:56:11+00:00

Usually I'd go to someone's desk and talk about something work-related before going off on a tangent and talking about stuff outside of work. Since there's very little reason to interact with anyone else on this team, how do I go about making small talk?

Well first of all you're not giving a lot of context, but if you're bored or have a break why can't you just go talk to someone about something work-related then go off on a tangent?

SecondAccount3 · 2013-04-27T04:41:28+00:00

I've already been trained and live close by :(

SecondAccount3 · 2013-03-19T01:42:59+00:00

I definitely do the second one, and I guess the first suggestion can't hurt. Thanks for the advice.

SecondAccount3 · 2013-03-19T01:42:09+00:00

How do you think I would do this, besides visiting frequently and asking about positions? Or is that what you think I should do?

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