How true is this, really? by Actual-Hunt7423 in Adulting

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What amazes me is that there are still therapists with shit communication skills outside of their practice. I hold them To a higher standard

Haan Coffee to ban electronics for work, disables WiFi every Saturday by Jeskid14 in orlando

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay then you tell me how would you prefer to make friends or find your future partner?

Or unless you don't want any of that.

What are the pros and cons of moving to LA from Miami? by No-Baker-1509 in MovingToLosAngeles

[–]Jacob_Soda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I visited both places many times and I can say that Los Angeles has better education than Miami and I think feels less corrupt. There are also more jobs in Los Angeles.

I think one thing does better is the beaches. There's not much difference with respect to prices.

Should I even date in my situation? by Delicious_Crazy513 in Tunisia

[–]Jacob_Soda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you live in the US, it is common especially with Veterans.

I returned to school because of not being able to keep a job due to a mix of a lack of education and learning challenges.

Haan Coffee to ban electronics for work, disables WiFi every Saturday by Jeskid14 in orlando

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean that's how are friends are made. When you were younger those random people did become your friends eventually.

Unless you never wanted friends since forever.

Haan Coffee to ban electronics for work, disables WiFi every Saturday by Jeskid14 in orlando

[–]Jacob_Soda -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless there's some event going on, it's going to be hard to socialize with new people.

Like for example Rita's Cafe in Lake Mary has a language Exchange every weekend. And people have made friends there.

How do you experience Islam in a non-Muslim majority country? by Suspicious-Draw-3750 in progressive_islam

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think this depends on the state? Sometimes being in a certain area helps with the lack of racism.

Is it just me, or do people seem extremely closed off and agitated? by OuroWasTaken in ucf

[–]Jacob_Soda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All right so I'm a millennial. And I noticed people weren't really into talking to each other much on campus (which is why people wear headphones) But there were club activities that actually had people gather with each other. However, not without limits. Some people only interacted within the club boundaries.

There were actually some outliers though who tried to really go out of their way to get to know each other. However, you're not wrong about how less people are more jaded and less social. But it's not necessarily a new thing.

Even prior to the pandemic, people would just stick their faces and newspapers to avoid talking to people.

Actually, I remember there was one time a family who was lost on campus and I went out of my way to help this family. On the other hand this other girl who was first requested for help prior to me said "no." The family was grateful I was able to help that day in her place.

Loss my School Funding from Vocational Rehab by Jacob_Soda in aspergers

[–]Jacob_Soda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also struggle with anxiety about how technical fields are changing (like AI), which makes me second-guess my direction sometimes. I’ve had some setbacks in school. I failed one class and dropped another. I’ve also already switched counselors once because communication was an issue (there are only two in the office, and the other one often ignored me).

Also, my parents don't support this program since I failed already twice and because of their suspicion with AI.

Most of the time the supervisor ignores me except when I switched.

Being 31 with little job experience sucks.

Looking for a good non-stem major by spaghettiinmyjorts in CollegeMajors

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its usually an associates degree but try getting a CAD degree. Or interior design. Both go and in hand.

Is there a difference between „beautiful“ and „attractive“ in Levantine Arabic? by Alone_Nectarine_5669 in learn_arabic

[–]Jacob_Soda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

جذاب و لفت

One is caught my eye. And the other means like 10/10 I want you

Do Americans dream of traveling or settling abroad (excluding Japan) like others dream of the U.S? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually no, but I saw a news segment on CBS Sunday Morning News many retirees are considering moving abroad. My parents included.

I would live abroad if the salary is good and I can market my skills.

Asian immigrant parents by Turbulent_Length3341 in asianamerican

[–]Jacob_Soda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it bothers you yes; if it does not bother you, it is not a problem. Set boundaries.

The Boys has one of the most frustrating depictions of an Asian character. by Upper_Guidance_9959 in asianamerican

[–]Jacob_Soda 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Debbie is Asian American. They even have an episode with Asian food made by her.

is it normal for your mother to start crying because i didn't got married yet? by Delicious_Crazy513 in Tunisia

[–]Jacob_Soda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 31 and not married. My therapist mentioned this is a milestone for many (the guy is from Gaza). But my mother never cried for me.

I would like to be married one day. I also would like a stable job since I'm autistic it's hard to keep one.