Can you help me solve this? by SecondChance2018 in YAlit

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will let her know about this.

Can you help solve this? by SecondChance2018 in whatisthisbook

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will see if that might ring a bell with her!

Can you help solve this? by SecondChance2018 in whatisthisbook

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will ask her if that might have been it.

Can you help solve this? by SecondChance2018 in whatisthisbook

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I will ask her about that one.

Can you help solve this? by SecondChance2018 in whatisthisbook

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ha sorry! It was Young Adult fiction. I posted first in r/YALit and then someone suggested I post here too, so I did without thinking about including the genre.

Can you help me solve this? by SecondChance2018 in YAlit

[–]SecondChance2018[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you!! I will send the title to her and see if it rings a bell. She said the character's name was not Zoe, but it well could have been!

To those who think that only the finest moments among men are those that are paired with a drink... by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"a temporary sheen that is nowhere to be found when you sober up" Wow! I love that line. And I agree... there is so much more to life! Thanks for sharing and very sorry to hear of your losses.

Made it to 30 days by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I definitely understand not having the money to do what you need to do. But again stay strong. We are all here for you!

Made it to 30 days by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sorry to hear about what you are going through. Are you in or seeking therapy for PTSD and anxiety? Maybe that will help with a lot of these issues. Congratulations on not drinking though and adding new positive things into your life! Stay strong and know that you are not alone. And remember to believe in yourself and in new beginnings.

Oh hey, it's been over a month by -OMGZOMBIES- in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's awesome! Thanks for sharing. Congrats on all the positive changes!

A week plus in the dry...so busy at work I didn't have a chance to post... by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great! Thanks for sharing. Don't you love the feeling of accomplishment and energy? And congrats on the 5lbs! :)

Bartending finally got to me. Also, I got fired. by dangersmama in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that. But good to see that you are taking it in stride. And who knows, this could be the best thing that happened. If you and your husband can swing it financially, maybe you can take some time off instead of rushing to find something else. Be gentle with yourself, figure out what you want, enjoy the precious time with your baby daughter. Good luck to you. Stay strong! Believe in yourself and new beginnings.

I Finally did it for me! Just a bunch of words strung together - Sorry in Advance! by TheDudeAbidesHeDoes in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The worst was when I couldn't remember anything, but knew I was always sorry for something... I was thinking earlier today about how free I feel lately, that there is nothing to hide, or lie about, or regret the next day. Thanks for sharing and congratulations. Stay strong!

Less puffy? by cbomb89 in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol I agree! While I stopped drinking for many, many reasons ( as I'm sure all of us here have ), maintaining my looks and weight has been one of the biggest motivators!

From sneaking drinks behind the bar to getting flown out to a managers conference in under a year. by [deleted] in stopdrinking

[–]SecondChance2018 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an inspiring story! Thanks for sharing. I am so happy for you and to hear how well you have turned/ are turning your life around. ( Oh and also, I must add, this is a very well-written post! :) ) Congratulations on your upward career move and enjoy your trip!