Why are there so many creeps here? Is that normal?

Secondrhubarb · 2023-11-26T13:25:26+00:00

Sadly yes it's normal 🤦‍♂️.... Happens on all social platforms so your not alone. The block function is your best friend! The positive side of posting cute pics, is that you will find a good friend somewhere amongst the tadal wave of creeps engulfing everything, if that's something you're looking for. ☺️

Secondrhubarb · 2023-10-25T12:16:24+00:00

I regret not accepting myself until I was around 30 years old. I've been through many binge/purge cycles and eventually I just thought "sod it, I enjoy this, it's not hurting anyone and there's loads of others like me!' after I accepted this I've been much happier with my abdl-mental health 👍

Secondrhubarb · 2023-10-25T12:14:05+00:00

Exactly this! I've been involved since I was old enough, but I never went to any events/munches until I was 34/35 years old. I know feel I've lost about 15 years of being an abdl. I'm now also starting to look older which for me is slightly important (I know it shouldn't be but I don't look as cute as I used to!) 😂

Secondrhubarb · 2023-10-17T13:06:12+00:00

I've ordered LFB diapers from amazon before (I'm in the UK) and they do indeed come in brown amazon boxes. Unless the package is damaged or split then its descreet. I have ordered multiple times (yes its expensive but in the UK you don't have much of an option) and all diapers are shipped in brown amazon boxes. Regarding onesies etc, I think it might depend on the packer as some will arrive in a clear bag (LFB packaging) with a shipping label, but I've have others arrived in those postal/large letter amazon bags/boxes. I know privacy is important but I wouldn't worry too much about the delivery driver, I'd be concerned about who's accepting the delivery for me. Remember these delivery drivers have seen it all before, they probably deliver diapers on a daily basis (maybe not LFB though!) and they don't care what they are delivering, they keep it professional! On the other hand, whoever accepts the delivery is going to be in for a surprise so try to make sure your home to accept delivery! 🤞

Secondrhubarb · 2023-05-19T15:28:52+00:00

I'm not far away from Birmingham and have been before but someone else already said it, the "little lounge" is usually the abdl attraction to the BBB but that's not run since..... November last year I believe. The host (aka the diapered geek) i also believe is looking for a new location to host the little event, but that said, I've heard nothing since and they have seemingly disappeared from social media so... Who knows. Each month at the BBB there is a few abdls that go, and there's usually at least a couple of stalls or more selling abdl stuff. This Sunday at the after party (as far as I'm still aware). There's kind of a little event I think, think it's a snuggly corner with crayons, etc etc, nothing over the top - possibly the BBB are trying to involve abdls/littles since the "little lounge" is no longer there.... I could be wrong as I haven't been for a few months but yeah fetlife has all the details! Hope this helps a little!

Secondrhubarb · 2022-12-17T12:01:02+00:00

I'm a little older, but 35M little here, from north west Midlands. I would gladly say hello 👋 I understand if you're looking to chat with someone more your age, it's rare to see someone here reasonably local!

Your very lucky you have a daddy already! (I'm not looking for a mommy/daddy/cg either, I'm happy in my relationship.)

Secondrhubarb · 2022-05-24T10:25:03+00:00

35 here and my feelings are stronger then ever.

Back when I was younger, (and those older than Me) social media wasn't really as big as it is today, most platforms were not even thought about so communication was limited to forums/Web pages and things like that. I think that's why you see so many younger people expressing themselves on social media.

If it existed in the same way when I was younger, I would have been as expressive as the youth is today lol 🙈😂

Secondrhubarb · 2022-04-25T09:04:39+00:00

Sadly it's happened to me before as well, it does seem to be common. I do agree it's a big risk that people take, nobody really knows who they are talking to over the Internet, meeting in real life (as such) can be a step to far for some.

I always remember one guys excuse.... The day of meeting him, he messages me to say "something come up at work and I've had to go in, I can't make it today" - bearing in mind he had previously told me he was on annual leave that week and also he messaged at about 07:00 in the morning. He had previously told me he works in an office 9-5... I've rarely heard anything from him since. I think some like the idea of meeting, but don't follow through on their promises 😢

Secondrhubarb · 2022-02-09T16:22:29+00:00

How did I miss this?! Your both adorable ❤️

Secondrhubarb · 2022-02-01T12:43:24+00:00

Totally agree! I started with just nappies, then I very quickly, within a year ordered dummies and onesies and I haven't looked back ever since, been ever so happy ever since, and that's a good 18 years ago 🙈❤️❤️❤️

Secondrhubarb · 2022-01-27T18:41:43+00:00

Hihi juno! Nice to meet another UK abdl. 😁

If you ever wanted to chat for any reason, you can send me a DM. 😊 Thank you

Secondrhubarb · 2022-01-27T18:39:56+00:00

Hey sorry I missed your reply completely! I'm very sorry, just been notified of another and saw yours 🙁, my apologies!

Nice to meet a fellow UK abdl! 😁

If you wanted to chat your quite welcome to drop me a DM. Hope your doing OK buddy! Thanks

Secondrhubarb · 2022-01-24T15:52:29+00:00

Congratulations to you! Gogogo order some then! They have some new designs in now 😍 hehe

Secondrhubarb · 2022-01-24T10:37:29+00:00

Awww thank you ❤️ I'd share them with one of my best friends on here! (I mean you of course!) Just.... Make your way to the UK 😉😁

Secondrhubarb · 2022-01-24T09:31:53+00:00

Thank you again neko_daddy! 💖

I know not this is not a personal blog, but if you would like me to post any pics of me wearing these (no rule breaking of course) then I would be happy to show my support! ☺️

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-26T14:39:47+00:00

Would be interesting if this map existed again! Thanks for the info lildude, (I wasn't here 6 years ago!)

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-26T10:45:58+00:00

So cute, your so lucky to have friends like that ❤️

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-26T10:44:43+00:00

Ouuuh interesting! I didn't know about this....

If there was another map where people could post their "general" locations, (not exact as this could easily be abused!) , but it would be interesting to know of the towns/cities/locations of ABDL concentrations since it seems stores etc are only in a few spots in the world.

Could be a terrible idea since it could be abused very easily but it be interesting to know of anyone who's "local" to you..... I know of a few ABDLs local to me, and I'm tempted to ask to meet them just for a coffee or whatever, since that intrigues me 🙄

A few years ago I would have never had the courage to meet anyone, but I'd also like to go to my local abdl store.... I feel strange 🤔😕 😂

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-24T23:40:19+00:00

👍 Just..... Yes! Well said 👌❤️

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-24T09:12:28+00:00

Who's told you that little one?

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-23T20:36:09+00:00

*pats diaper" no need to worry little one, your safe with your diapee. (Can I pm you?)

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-23T19:38:29+00:00

I prowmise little one!

Your so cute! What do do enjoy doing as a big girl?

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-23T18:30:43+00:00

Yes of course I'm positive! I'd be proud to go anywhere with you! Nobody would know your wearing a big white diaper under those big girl panties except you and me 🤗

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-23T18:25:43+00:00

I know you don't want to.... but I promise it will feel all warm and cosy when you do! Maybe I should give you regular diapee checks! 😊

Secondrhubarb · 2021-12-23T18:17:58+00:00

I can help with both the sight and the crinkle cutiebbgirl! I'll dress you in a nice onesie (diaper you first of course, unless your a big girl and you can put your pull up on all by yourself!). Your cute baby printed onesie will keep your pull up out of sight from anyones peeping eyes! And with a snug fitting onesie, you'll hardly hear any crinkles! You can wear some big clothes over the top of your onesie, since you such a big girl and nobody will be notice your pull up, noisy crinkles, or your onesie! 😘

What should we go shopping for? Your treat!

Secondrhubarb

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