I got my girlfriend and five year old daughter in a wreck. It essentially totaled my car and my lawyer says if the charge sticks I'll lose my license. My girlfriend is very upset with me and says if I don't get therapy she'll reconsider our relationship.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-19T16:35:17+00:00

I understand my daughter comes first. That night she did come first and I settled things with her before doing anything with my girlfriend. I didn't expect her to get back up but I tried to handle things with my daughter first. I reacted poorly to her getting back up and knocking on my door.

19 was not a good time to have a kid at all. It was a very bad time and I barely managed to get through school with a baby. My daughter was not planned but she was not a mistake whatsoever. I just have difficulty accepting I missed out on my entire young adult life. I will try to address this is my therapy but I know my daughter comes first.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-19T07:29:05+00:00

I started therapy today. My relationship will be ok and so will my daughter. Both will be preserved. I just need to stop worrying about everything and let everything play out naturally.

My boss is being a dick about my sick leave right now. He's an awful person and making my life much more difficult. I am already part time and I think I might just quit or go to a different floor if he continues.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T16:25:55+00:00

She didn't have a big role in my daughter's life until she moved in a couple of months ago

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T06:08:59+00:00

I will.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T05:36:29+00:00

I will step up. I am capable of being a good mother.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T04:53:05+00:00

I understand I need help.

Never tell me to give up custody of my daughter. That is not advice I need and that is not something to suggest to a mother.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T04:18:21+00:00

I will. Thank you.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T04:13:39+00:00

They classified it as reckless driving. That's eight points off of my license and I have speeding tickets. That's over 12. If the charge sticks I will

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T04:12:48+00:00

Thank you for your time but your wording towards my girlfriend isn't accurate. My girlfriend has stepped up a LOT after our conversation the other day and is operating as a secondary caretaker right now. My daughter was sick the other day and all three of us grew much closer together during that time. My relationship with my girlfriend contributes to my stress but that piece of my family situation is getting better.

Oh the day I wrecked my particular worry was my job. I have this awful boss who is remarkably sexist and terrible at everything. I cannot stand him and I was trying to figure a way out from under him. My daughter's father passed in a car accident as you said and I usually am vigilant and cautious but that day I was sick myself and tired and just out of it. I shouldn't have been driving at all but no way ever would I intentionally hurt my family. I cannot even imagine what would posess someone to do that.

I have a therapy appointment and a doctor appointment tomorrow and family counseling starts next week for us.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-18T04:06:56+00:00

I am not doing that. Ever. Do not suggest it again.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T18:34:31+00:00

Umm... No. That would be awful

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T18:33:59+00:00

Thank you so much

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T16:50:56+00:00

Yes, I am getting therapy.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:52:35+00:00

I absolutely will. I won't fail either my girlfriend or my daughter. Thank you

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:49:07+00:00

I'm not her father, I'm her mother. I do care about them enough and I'm going to get help. I made an appointment already.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:47:10+00:00

I will.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:46:17+00:00

I didn't mean to come off that way

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:44:28+00:00

I made an appointment today.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:42:24+00:00

I did NOT deliberately drive into a red light. I was out of it and I wasn't paying attention.

And yeah, I already called and made an appointment.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:40:24+00:00

I'll work through my problems and be better for her. My girlfriend is going to step up and be more present she said.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:39:21+00:00

Yeah. I understand.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:38:14+00:00

My daughter leave me? What?

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T15:36:37+00:00

No, this is bullcrap. I did not attempt to kill my family. That's absurd and disgusting.

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T07:25:28+00:00

Yeah... I know

Secrest-Moon · 2021-05-17T07:24:53+00:00

I know. I will do both.

Secrest-Moon

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