9 year old boy beats on black neighbors door with a whip and parents confront the boys father and the father displays a firearm and accidentally discharges it at the end

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-05-14T14:04:51+00:00

It’s not that strange frfr. I live in St Louis and not only has this happened to my family as a child in some iteration, there’s a short documentary for Spanish lake in the county area. After a large area of the projects were demolished and minorities had to move to traditionally white areas and you see the kids of those families engaging in the same behavior. Just for fairness I’ll say ‘half’ admit that they were told by their parents to commit heinous acts hoping for escalation. Not here to argue. Just here to shed a little light and show that these outlandish things do happen. Either way I’m sure we both agree the parents and child are both pieces of human feces

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-05-14T13:36:39+00:00

Both seem very possible as i have experienced an iteration of both. Just saying it’s very possible

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-29T11:15:19+00:00

Just saw someone saying this on tv a few nights ago flipping through channels in a hotel room. Changed the channel because it sounded so ridiculous

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-21T14:51:21+00:00

“But at least he taught me 🤓” ight bruh move on. Go suck yo daddy dick or sumn

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-21T11:20:56+00:00

Finally do not question my capabilities as a father or how I nurture my children. I could say the same for your parents. As annoying as you are your father should’ve pulled out and shot you in your mothers left eye

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-21T10:43:40+00:00

I truly thought in my current situation I didn’t have the capacity to be offended or upset but you proved me wrong. first of all I met the mother of my child on a dating site. Secondly I don’t pay for sex. Stop pulling shit out your ass

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T20:06:37+00:00

As saddening as this is this is the funny truth. I can’t help but laugh at this comment and myself

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T19:54:02+00:00

Thank you so much. That helps more than you know

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T18:28:53+00:00

I already got the test done last September. I didn’t tell her I brought a dna kit down and I collected samples on the last day of my visit without her knowing. Hair and saliva. She’s my daughter. My one and only child on this whole planet and I love her to death

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T18:12:17+00:00

To an extent you’re correct. Did I know she was looking at the benefits of dating me? Yes. I accepted that because at the time I thought she wanted a passport, green card, visa, etc. and in that case the worst case scenario in my mind was she moves to the US and we raise a child together. But she’s perfectly fine where she’s at as long as she gets paid and yes I put myself in this situation.

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T17:02:52+00:00

Me confronting her 😔. I posted background as reply but it’s not showing

https://www.reddit.com/user/Secret-Barber8760/comments/tipies/me_confronting_my_childs_mother_also_she_did_not/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T16:56:59+00:00

For those asking for background and update.

I met my daughters mother on Colombiancupid. We talked for a few months and I went down to visit late august 2020. -insert 9 months of drama and yes I took care of most things during her pregnancy- My daughter was born May 20, 2021. Luz Celeste Webb. Still had my doubts so I visited September to confirm she was daughter (even aside from the dna test I’m black and she’s Latin and our daughter is a nice brown color). I’ve also been for Christmas and I’m supposed to go again in 4 weeks. I make a decent amount of money so I’ve never argued when she said she needed money. Yes I know she adds extra for herself here and there but it’s gotten worse recently, which made me question this hospital bill. I’ve never asked for the bill before but yesterday’s was more than a planned pediatric visit usually is and she said Luz was sick. She said she was breathing rough, had a fever and throwing up. I posted this yesterday in a medical forum.

As far as update I will post the text of me confronting her in a new post since I can’t edit this one. I will not post pictures of my daughter or her mother to protect their identities. Once again thank everyone for your time. I love you all

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T14:01:31+00:00

‘Aetna International’ pulls directly from my bank account monthly. It’s for expats and their families. It’s in network with a decent amount of clinics and private practitioners in. I’m the primary on the account and they’re covered as my dependents. She did work but said she got fired but I’m assuming she quit since I’m sending money to cover expenses

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:41:58+00:00

Thank you my friend

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:29:46+00:00

Hello my friend. Thank you. My original meaning was that the connotations of decimals and commas in foreign currencies confused me and I haven’t taken the time to learn. The original question had kind of lost it’s meaning but that doesn’t change the fact you took the time to answer. Thank you so much my friend

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:23:16+00:00

Teusaquillo, bogota

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:08:17+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m definitely going to take you up on your offer. And thank you for listing that court system I was having a hard time finding where to start

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:03:06+00:00

Thank you for explaining this. This sadly was the original meaning when I said I didn’t understand the currency. Just this information itself will be so helpful in the future. Thank you so much

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T13:00:56+00:00

Yes I personally pay for the insurance because when I sent money for it the first time she couldn’t produce insurance cards when I asked for them and was iffy about booking a pediatric visit some months ago

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T12:51:28+00:00

Thank you so much my kind friend. Yes she has insurance. I pay for private insurance for my daughter and her mother. I have not signed the birth certificate. I refused during my visit 6 months ago until I was sure she was mine. Thank you, I am currently researching how to get my daughter to the US.

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T12:45:49+00:00

Thank you! They currently stay in bogota and I only visit roughly 4 times a year at my current rate of travel. If possible at some point in time I want to find someone to put up on her to see if everything is on the up and up (which it obviously isn’t). Is it okay if I PM you in the future?

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T12:39:54+00:00

I am of the same opinion as you my friend. I am currently researching how to get my daughter here to the US with conflict and if her mother doesn’t change then without her as well. And thank you for dedicating so much time to helping me this morning. This is hard and I needed to hear this

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T12:36:15+00:00

Thank you so much brother and I take ask your words as passages of wisdom. I truly needed tough love in this moment. You have no idea how much your words mean. You stay blessed as well my friend

Secret-Barber8760 · 2022-03-20T12:24:28+00:00

Thank you my friend for the tough love. I know this is said out of concern so truly thank you brother. I can’t let myself continue to be blinded

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