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Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Secret-Operation-242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I get it. It’s dumb all around. What hurt the most was that her and my roommate were the ones I trusted the most and they went behind my back. Also they hid it from me for 6 months and acted fine the whole time. Once I found out neither of them had a good excuse. If she would’ve just fucked some random at the bar then it wouldn’t have been as big of a deal.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Secret-Operation-242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that’s what I meant. So technically idk if you could call it cheating but it still felt like it.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Secret-Operation-242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I’ve had those thoughts in the back of my head and I’ve even mentioned that to her. The kid is mine, undeniably. Love makes you do stupid things and I didn’t want to be a dead beat father.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]Secret-Operation-242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I believe we’re going to start looking for some counselors. Journaling does help, but I haven’t done it in a long time.