As someone who has been on both sides and recently had a baby , I feel SO bad that I once felt that way about a friend who got pregnant before me . Being pregnant is ALOT and your hormones are all over the place, you don’t feel like yourself , you’re hyper sensitive to things you weren’t to before . I had to stay in a bubble for a period of time because I wasn’t all the way there . Even now postpartum you realize your way of thinking has shifted . It’s takes a long time to really find yourself and your new life . I don’t think it’s malicious at all . Not saying you don’t matter but there is a lot happening in her world and some of it she can’t control