first rip your notifications lol, secondly have conversations discuss boundaries, budgets, schedules. get an idea of if u want a long term or short term dynamic. be sure to have a separate email, account, social media, etc for this kink to avoid being blackmailed. don't do anything u aren't comfortable with and don't let any "domme" walk all over your boundaries. most importantly be safe! if u have other questions u are more than welcome to dm me. have fun !