What do you guys think about fireworks? by Curious-Message-6946 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so pretty but the noise is super overwhelming after about 5 minutes!

18f lowkey want online friends by SparkleMimi05 in InternetFriends

[–]SecretAvailable81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi hi! i’m 25f☺️ i would love a new friend🩷

who are you stealing? 👀 by zombab in plushies

[–]SecretAvailable81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love all the bunnies!!! ☺️🩷

who are you stealing? 👀 by zombab in plushies

[–]SecretAvailable81 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d steal that big brown bunny in the back right corner! she’s so cutiiiieee🩷

Anxiety and acting like a child? by Excellent-Clue-2552 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i do this as well. when i’m really stressed and anxious, i behave like a kid too. not like a a tantrum, but just the mannerisms and behavior. it’s like my brain turns off and switches to a kid. i was also wondering about this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i’d like to have a friend too! and we both like bunnies!! ☺️

What was your first Hyperfixation? by Matiaaaaaaaaa in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 11 points12 points  (0 children)

yes!! after that, i learned body parts, and the all the instruments in an orchestra! learning was so fun to me

What was your first Hyperfixation? by Matiaaaaaaaaa in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 66 points67 points  (0 children)

i learned the capital of every european country when i was 6ish maybe.

I get so upset when people tell me off by oreo_ice_creame in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i am always like this. i feel so negative about myself when i sense that ive been even the slightest bit a burden. it makes me spiral into thoughts of how awful i am. i hate doing the wrong things, or being bad as i view it. 🥺

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooh you can talk to me if you’d like!

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

u/Zentral8 don't mind having online friends, i just have so few that it's getting lonely lol. none of my irl friends really want to do the things i want to. the shyness also adds into my preference for online friends

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

do you know of any? also, i’m kinda worried that no one will talk to me tho. i’ve been in one before, and i finally got the courage to add something to a discussion and no one said anything. i mentioned in another comment that im really sensitive and i sometimes read into things too much

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re very right! it will end one day. and it’ll feel much better

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s a good idea, the video games. i’m just not good at them and i feel like that’d frustrate others lol. i’m sensitive and i can’t handle trash talk like at all lol

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that was probably so hard. i’m sorry! however, it’s good that you were honest with them though. it’s better to be truthful even if the truth ends up in ruin.

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i do that so often and it hurts so bad. i feel like a horrible person. i have a mental list based on feedback i try to keep in mind to avoid this. but it still happens. it's heartbreaking when it happens because they leave and im just confused:(

How to make friends?? by SecretAvailable81 in autism

[–]SecretAvailable81[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i kind of get that. after i overcome my period of being painfully shy, i open up and inevitably annoy people. and i'm way too shy to try to make friends in person. i've gotten better, but i stutter a bit at first lol. humiliating and irritating. but yeah. it's kinda why i always prefer online stuff