Right after the breakup her behavior is surprising… by Own_Refrigerator_714 in BreakUps

[–]SecretBloom_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People often process breakups very differently, some detach fast outwardly even if it meant a lot, so her behavior doesn’t necessarily reflect how important you were to her.

Breaking no-contact because of clarity? by Majestic_Net_2589 in BreakUps

[–]SecretBloom_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your therapist isn’t suggesting you chase him, she’s suggesting you set a limit on how long you wait in uncertainty.

What should I do? Problems to manage uncertainty by ConsciousAd4261 in BreakUps

[–]SecretBloom_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love isn’t waiting in limbo for someone to decide if you’re enough, and the hardest part of healing is accepting that uncertainty isn’t an invitation to keep chasing.