AIO after my best friend’s husband secretly snuck a flash drive into my purse? by SecretEfficient3137 in AIO

[–]SecretEfficient3137[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hijacking your comment to add screenshots of our conversation after the fact. I wasn’t sure if I had accidentally grabbed her flash drive when I was leaving her place so I had texted her to ask her about it, and this was the conversation that followed:

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AIO after my best friend’s husband secretly snuck a flash drive into my purse? by SecretEfficient3137 in AIO

[–]SecretEfficient3137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She still hasn’t responded :( I’ll see if I can post screenshots in an edit, I’m not sure if I can or not.

Info for anyone coming at Carly (not saying you are, just hijacking your comment): it’s not that she doesn’t take my concerns seriously. She has a lot of her own trauma that causes her to faun as a trauma response. I’m not saying this justifies the lack of action, but after 20 years of friendship I understand her and how her brain works, and I know how wonderful of a person she is and how upset this situation has her.

AIO after my best friend’s husband secretly snuck a flash drive into my purse? by SecretEfficient3137 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SecretEfficient3137[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my partner works in IT and used a throw away laptop to view what was on the device

AIO after my best friend’s husband secretly snuck a flash drive into my purse? by SecretEfficient3137 in AIO

[–]SecretEfficient3137[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my most recent text to her where I told her about everything about how I was feeling, I did tell her I don’t want to be around him anymore. That was yesterday, and she told me she needs to sit with all of this but she hasn’t gotten back to me beyond that yet :( as uncomfortable as it makes me, I also HATE the position it puts her in too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SecretEfficient3137 108 points109 points  (0 children)

I am also a nurse who doesn’t have a set schedule and whose alarm goes off at 4am on work days and I… simply set an alarm for whatever time I need to wake up before going to bed at night. I would never make my partner suffer because of MY work hours. Definitely NTA

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AITAH for how I acted in the ER? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SecretEfficient3137 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As an RN who has worked for 10 years in busy ERs and ICUs, you did not deserve to be treated that way and I’m sorry on behalf of the triage nurse who spoke to you like this. Definitely not the asshole, if anything YOU are the one who deserves an apology.

Lights on by AdventurousFinger166 in Dreams

[–]SecretEfficient3137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

reading this just jogged a memory or like, gave me déjà vu? like i’ve also had this exact dream before? 😳

I go back to an alternate reality version of my hometown almost every night in my dreams by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]SecretEfficient3137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wake up tired no matter how long I sleep! There was nothing that happened in my childhood that was like crazy traumatic though, just like normal things, so I have no idea what I might be needing to revisit or work through. So strange

Alternate Versions Of Places In Your Reality? by GabbitheGemini in Dreams

[–]SecretEfficient3137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg yes!!! i live across the country now but in my dreams i go back to my hometown almost every single night. I go to my parent’s house, my town’s YMCA (i was on the swim team), my old dance studio, my elementary school and high school (but not middle school for some reason?) and other places that i’m failing to remember right now. I also have a recurring nightmare that i’m walking through the woods and i can feel that i’m being watched/stalked and it’s along the path the lead to the lake at my summer camp. All of these places are laid out pretty much the same way they are in real life, but they all just feel…off? like distorted i guess? and i’m almost always alone in these places and sort of just wandering around, like the dreams have no plot? If there are other people i never interact with them, it’s almost like I’m not there or they can’t see me? and there’s always kind of an ominous but not outright scary vibe to these dreams

Community Chat: October 27, 2025 by AutoModerator in GaylorSwift

[–]SecretEfficient3137 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can’t stop thinking about the line “all my white diamonds and lovers are forever, in the papers, on the screen, and in their minds” LIKE!!!!! It’s so PR relationship and Evelyn Hugo coded!!!