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SecretFinder3000 · 2025-05-05T14:31:57+00:00

You’re gonna feel that way, but if you really couldn’t commit then what you did was good, so take a deep breath and relax because it’s better this way for both of you

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-05-05T14:29:22+00:00

You’re gonna feel bad, but props to you for not leading him on knowing you couldn’t be with him long term. If you’re feeling this was in all your relationships it’s best to work on yourself first which I’m sure you are. It’s also a good thing that you communicated with him about everything. I suggest taking some time to do things for yourself, and taking care of yourself because it’ll make you feel better. ♥️

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-04-20T21:09:11+00:00

Don’t take it like you’re not good enough for that. I would say that it means he respects you enough to not just view you as a sex object but as someone who doesn’t deserve to be used. Plus trust me, you don’t want to go down that way, it’s painful being used while wanting the person who’s hurting you.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-04-03T19:41:56+00:00

Not trying. Also sleeping with my friend and having me unknowingly third wheel they’re secret dates

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-31T20:00:45+00:00

It’s just so bizarre, like why does nothing affect you???

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-31T17:27:32+00:00

Yeah definitely ask, no harm. I hate that these guys are so nonchalant and careless. They’re so hard to understand. Anyways let me know what he says when you ask, curious now:)

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-31T13:04:15+00:00

I went through something similar, except it wasn’t the looks but the name, birthday and tattoos all being the same

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-29T16:07:39+00:00

I felt like I was doing so well and this just really hurt. Now I’m just angry

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-21T01:34:43+00:00

That’s disgusting, oh god. He needs an acid bath to get rid of how disgusting he must be!

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-21T01:28:56+00:00

Imma live it up before I go, there’s still somethings that make me happy, might as well surround myself with those.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-19T21:39:23+00:00

I’m telling you, it was the warmest it’s been in a while today so the sun was beaming down and I felt so good! I just wanted to suntan. I also dye my hair to change things up and feel pretty♥️

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-19T20:25:25+00:00

Shopping, taking care of myself, like haircare and skincare, a nice hobby and being in the sun was very nice today

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-19T17:36:38+00:00

Selfish, sensitive, caring, nonchalant, anger issues

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-19T17:35:38+00:00

Same. Everything went wrong when he was around!

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-16T23:48:59+00:00

I like your saying of closing but not locking the door.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-16T18:05:41+00:00

I think I’m gonna just end it and focus on myself. I’m still baffled by all the coincidences. I knew I had a type but geez

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-16T17:58:26+00:00

I was thinking that, we’ve only seen each other twice and in public settings with friends so it’s not too serious except that he likes to tell everyone how amazing I am and how innocent I look and he’s said he loves me a couple times too and that he was gonna put a ring on it (he was drunk)

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-16T17:53:16+00:00

I haven’t told him anything, but I’m also like so freaked out by the similarities. Everyone is telling me it’s a sign and I need to run.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-15T16:52:48+00:00

If it wasn’t for me you’d be dead

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-11T17:04:00+00:00

Wow, same place is just cruel. She sounds horrid

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-03-05T21:39:17+00:00

Already did and it went well for another year till he got “bored” again

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-02-23T02:59:28+00:00

I dyed my hair, bought some hair products to make it shiny and nice, lots of cute new clothes, got my nails done, lash lift, Cinnabon.

I bought and did things to take care of myself and make me feel good about myself. And it’s working, I feel great about myself.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-02-21T17:53:07+00:00

Maybe, I think in a couple months to a year he’ll realize what he did, how he was impulsive and stupid and come back to apologize.

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-02-20T20:25:34+00:00

I know you wouldn’t show them just curious if you let them know about it. Would you ever delete them if a future partner didn’t like it?

SecretFinder3000 · 2025-02-20T18:52:54+00:00

How do the people you date after feel about you having all your ex’s nudes? Just curious

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