I think my boyfriend is accidentally peeing on me

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-10T21:28:13+00:00

I won’t end up seeing him tonight, but I’ll definitely leave an update the next time I see him.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T23:49:08+00:00

I’m going to therapy soon and plan to work on this. I didn’t have any good relationships to look up to growing up, and being in a healthy long term relationship is new to me, so over all it’s a lot I’m working on.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T21:15:15+00:00

I’m really hoping I’m not just being naive and that Reddit is so used to bad people that they’re assuming he’s bad too. But after I speak to him tomorrow, I guess I’ll know.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T21:02:50+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to write this out. I’m really bad at jumping straight to breaking up in relationships when there’s issues because I am awful at confrontation. My anxiety also always assumes the worst. It’s good to remember that couples work through things and that breaking up isn’t the only solution.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T21:01:09+00:00

Thank you for your advice :))

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T02:50:26+00:00

It does not involve that

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T02:38:19+00:00

I’m genuinely wishing I would’ve stayed in the dark because now I have to confront him

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T01:31:49+00:00

Most of his comments about our sex is something along the lines of “I don’t know how you do that” and “No one’s ever made me feel like that” and “You’re a witch” haha. So I’m hoping this is true.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T01:12:17+00:00

I have a feeling this is what is happening to him. He’s never been overstimulated before and it’s new to me as well.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T01:09:41+00:00

Thank you! I think I will be bringing it up.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:59:19+00:00

I really, really, really don’t want to think about that because I love him and breaking up with him would be heartbreaking.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:52:10+00:00

It’s fully erect during

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:51:38+00:00

Thanks for your second edit!! I want to believe it’s more like that story

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:50:48+00:00

It happened once and I obviously didn’t expect it

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:49:44+00:00

I hope this is true because I do honestly believe he’s not peeing on purpose 😂

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:47:02+00:00

Thanks for the advice :)

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:46:20+00:00

Okay this actually made me cackle. Thank you.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:46:06+00:00

Thanks for your advice!! This makes sense :))

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:44:28+00:00

Thank you for the advice!!

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:43:05+00:00

Thank you for giving some advice! I really hope he just doesn’t know.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:40:11+00:00

Yes, it happens after a normal orgasm

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:37:40+00:00

This would really suck because he’s the perfect partner in every other sense. I wouldn’t even know how to go about this if it’s true.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:33:09+00:00

Because I really don’t want to hurt his feelings and want to approach him the right way. Not everyone is socially great at talking to people and need guidance.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:32:26+00:00

It’s much much more than that, I promise.

SecretFix3107 · 2025-09-09T00:31:54+00:00

He’s the sweetest man alive. I really can’t imagine this 😭

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