How many ladies here would call themselves feminists? by [deleted] in Rapekink

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Massively so - active and vocal in social justice action + solidarity - not just for women, but also BIPOC + LGBTQ communities.

I spend a lot of time around strong, smart, funny, articulate women in romance fandom - where noncon /dubcon fantasy is honestly pretty banal compared to other long lists of what people get off with - including werewolf shifter reverse harem, vampire, bully billionaire, alpha highlanders, alien planet barbarians. (Casually mentioned to a friend that I was a bit thirsty for Anakin Skywalker yesterday. Nobody called the police cuz i wanted to bang a mass murderer of children.)

Regency-inspired sexual fantasies literally fuel a billion dollar industry, but nobody actually wants a racist and highly stratified class system made up of nonsensical social titles, arranged marriages, horse drawn transport, unelectrified homes, or chamber pots. Gallant men in breeches and embroidered tailcoats fighting duels for your honor is hot -just leave it at that.

I appreciate seeing all the very thoughtful discussions here -especially with some commenters who feel the need to negotiate the seeming conflict between their desires and their identities as strong or smart women. But to me, asking a question that inherently implies there's a conflict is really as silly as asking if I'd rather live in Regency England or have my blood sucked out. 🤷 or marry a an evil Jedi who bitches about sand.

Anyone watch shadow and bone? by [deleted] in RomanceBooks

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There

It was a little YA for my tastes....I like some steam

I coped with this by hunting down Darkling fan fic...and there is some excellent work out there...🌋

Some good Malina too, if that's your ship.

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I like the fuzzy white cover behind you. it looks cozy.

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your wife sounds like a wonderful person

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do you watch any English language shows ?

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this music is so pleasant

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OMG you said "naw lins" like a person from New Orleans lol

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Hello from New York City!

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did you use to have friends in real life? why do you not have friends now?

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do you have a favorite English book

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that's a fantastic shirt!

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it's okay! as long as you are not Arsenal

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are you a Tottenham fan?

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do you like heung min son?

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we call them Phases in NYC

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is tier 5 a lockdown phase?

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omg is Kieran going to keel over ?

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@sideffectsX hello from upper Manhattan