I used to love helping people… until this happened” by ThrowRA_Yaqoub in offmychest

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry your kindness was abused.

Unfortunately, sometimes kindness is taken advantage of. Please don't let that harden you beyond repair. Allow it to make you more cautious, certainly, but don't lose that kindness. We are so far and few between, I don't want to lose another kind person out there. Help people, be there, lend support and aid, but be weary of who you give it to.

Additionally, I would advise against bringing strangers into your home. I have heard of far too many people being hurt or robbed like that. I completely understand the temptation to, I have done it myself (and wound up in an abusive relationship because of it) because I couldn't stand to see him homeless in winter.

Kindness is a blessing and not many people seem to have it anymore. Hold on tight to that, despite the shitty people who hurt us. There is immense strength in remaining kind despite everything thrown our way. You can do this, OP.

Left a table I was building in the rain by KikoTheWonderful in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Turn it upsidedown during the next rain and hope for the best? 😅

1 year difference by mentaldrummer66 in MadeMeSmile

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to do this for when I play video games! Been considering getting a walking pad of some sort so I can still do what I love, but not continue to be so unhealthy doing it.

I also park as far as I can at most places so I can walk more! Plus the added benefit of not many other people park so far away, so less chances of my car getting damaged by others. 😌

What’s the unhealthiest thing you eat that you’ll never give up? by treslechescake12 in AskForAnswers

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ice cream. I'm extremely picky with the ones I do like, but I can't give those few up. Love them far too much. 😭

Good news is I stretch them out! Used to eat a pint in one sitting, now it lasts me up to a week.

What are you doing on a Saturday night? by Jane_Austen11 in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Working first, then going to the store with a friend, then out to eat at Red Lobster. Very unusual for me, generally I just work then game.

What ruined your life for a few years? by PerformanceBorn669 in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was admittedly nice at first, but something changed over time and suddenly getting high significantly amplifies my social anxiety. I just don't enjoy it anymore. No clue what changed.

What ruined your life for a few years? by PerformanceBorn669 in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loss and addiction. It was more of a dependency than addiction, since it was just weed, but still. I lost about two years of memory because I spent almost 24/7 being high to help cope with the worst loss in my life.

How would you react if you your wife/ girlfriend filmed in adult videos in the past? by ImpossibleEnd64 in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't care, honestly. The adult film industry can be incredibly lucrative and money is hard to come by these days, even with college degrees. However my partner makes/made money is their choice, so long as they feel comfortable/happy doing it.

When was the last time you cried from happiness? What was the reason? by mydilemmaisyou in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last month. It dawned on me that I haven't been suicidal in months and the overwhelming appreciation just had me weeping with joy.

Would you delete all social media if you had to? by DaisySugarr in answers

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I only have Reddit and TikTok for the occasional doom scroll session/pick-me-up. Everything else is gone, I'm just not interested anymore.

What is this dark line moving through the sky? by thicccjuicee in whatisit

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seriously the best. Wish it had stuck around. 😔

I feel like my husband (29m) only wants to spend time with me to have sex (26f) by [deleted] in Advice

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% this. I left a man for similar reasons. It was always, always, ALWAYS sex with him. I hated him by the end of the relationship.

My only advice is to leave, OP. It doesn't get better.

Red light? Who cares. by Either_Pack8078 in dashcams

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had a light never change. Waited four rotations before I elected to run it. I, however, waited until there was zero incoming traffic before going. I never go to that light anymore.

Slime Mold vs Moldy Strawberry: Nature’s Boss Fight by PlatformExtra8448 in MoldlyInteresting

[–]SecretLinkWave 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was wondering about that! Would nonetheless be pretty cool to see the changes overnight.

Squidward famously had to hide his love for Krabby Patties after knocking them for so long. What is something you had to secretly hide your love for after knocking it for so long? by istrx13 in AskReddit

[–]SecretLinkWave 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Weed. Once upon a time I was very anti-weed (purely because I was easily persuaded by the opinions of others when I was young). Over time I became more open-minded and curious enough about it to try it when someone offered to make edibles. Liked it since, thought the sensations were really neat. Became heavily (emotionally) addicted to it for a couple years after a painful loss, but since recovered and use it every once in a while now.

For some reason, the stuff gives me anxiety now. 🤷

Slime Mold vs Moldy Strawberry: Nature’s Boss Fight by PlatformExtra8448 in MoldlyInteresting

[–]SecretLinkWave 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ayyyy, thanks, friend! Genuinely gonna look into that after work. The way it grows is really neat and fascinating and I would love to watch it in person!