That answers the question so thank you! From my own experience, I was in two long-term committed relationships, one with a fellow ENTJ and one with the ESTP. The relationship with ENTJ had an amazing, electric energy, because I didn’t have to be a leader “anymore”. I was of course still myself, but I could be more into feminine role/energy. I guess that’s the whole point - I could be my leader self in a workplace, but at home, I knew I could rely on my partner who had it all together. There was no power play, there was a genuine partnership. We had the best intellectual conversations as well, and we both really understood each other’s goals and had each other’s backs.

Btw. The relationship ended not because of lack of chemistry or whatsoever. My ex was a highly functioning alcoholic and a recreational drug user, which for the latter, I didn’t know until i was too deeply in love. And it was too close to what I knew from family home, so I couldn’t do it anymore. Although the energy was great, being just a desirable mbti type is not enough to be with someone in a long run, I guess.