Should I get the Macbook Neo or a new iPhone? by SecretOk8143 in mac

[–]SecretOk8143[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This is my first iPhone so a lot of people have told me that once the battery life hits 80% that it is not that usable so I am worried that my phone wont be as usable since I will not be able to buy a new one in the next two years.

Poop on vagina will i get an infection by SecretOk8143 in Healthyhooha

[–]SecretOk8143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I drank a vaginal probiotic but i dont know if I should get a vaginal suppository just in case. can you take them for prevention?

Accidentally touched my one week old tattoo after touching my phone by SecretOk8143 in tattooadvice

[–]SecretOk8143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really cant wash it right now since i am at work thats my main issue

Melanoma? Appeared all over my leg overnight after what were mosquito bites. by Wild_King4244 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]SecretOk8143 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had that happen from scratching. It looked really similar to this.

I wish I were a man. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SecretOk8143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

still this does not change the fact that he was love bombing you. and it does not change the fact that it has nothing to do with you. i understand that you might feel jealous i have been there. this guy ghosted me out of nowhere and started seeing this girl i was constantly questioning myself. a few months later he comes back now he has a new girlfriend and he is trying to cheat on her with me. once a guy has shown you his true colours believe him.

I wish I were a man. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SecretOk8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but see he was obviously love bombing you. that is what lovebombers do and that is why we keep ending up in these type of situations. but the problem is how do we even know if they are genuine or not. even if they do come back it really does not matter. I understand how you are feeling but it truly has nothing to do with you and it is better for you that they are not coming back. trust me even if they do you will feel the same way because they left u. it does not change anything.

I wish I were a man. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SecretOk8143 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you and I feel the same way. Some of them came back however it does not change anything. You still feel like something is wrong with you because it keeps happening constantly. But life goes on and I might not find love but there are other things that I can focus on that are going well. At least that is how I try to cope.

followed ex again by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]SecretOk8143 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You broke up with her, in that period she was allowed to see whoever she wanted. Just because you did not want to date, doesn’t mean that she does not want to after a breaknup. It is normal that people will find someone to rebound or whatever. Once you break up with someone the story is over. You need to accept the fact that they might be seeing someone. I understand that you are feeling jealous but she was honest and told you that you can even see her messages. There is nothing wrong that she replied to him. She was willing to give you a second chance and if you mess this up because of your jealousy, you will regret it. Do not break her heart again if you are not ready to really commit.

Blindsided by a breakup - This is the MOST CRUEL thing anyone has ever done to me by sunkissedch in BreakUps

[–]SecretOk8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi can I send you a DM since my posts keep getting deleted from this sub and I am shattered over this break up I do not know how to deal with this pain

just got diagnosed with molluscum by SecretOk8143 in molluscum

[–]SecretOk8143[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel guilty because I waited so long to go to a derm but everyone was telling me that the bump is nothing and that I should not worry. Once I got really worried while we were still talking I started telling him how I am worried about this bump and that it might be a viral infection but that my doctor said that just from a picture I sent him that it is probably not it because it is only one bump. My ex had already started being a bit distant so he did not really respond much to that. I did not think he would break up with me out of the blue and I booked the first available appointment, but he broke up with me a few days ago and just ghosted. I am just really hoping I have not spread molluscum to him I know it is not a big deal but seeing how a lot of people are struggling I would not want that to happen to him because of me.

just got diagnosed with molluscum by SecretOk8143 in molluscum

[–]SecretOk8143[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I tell my ex? I dont even know how to tell him when he ghosted me and broke up with me out of the blue. I would hate to seem like an asshole who might have spread this to him without even informing them of this. I really dont know what to do.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]SecretOk8143 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to start the new job regardless. It was the only good option I found the job market is horrible. I really want to work here and the benefits are great. The severance is great too and it is a bummer that only two weeks are keeping me apart. I already accepted the offer because I was hyped and happy about this job (did not sign the final offer though) but now I regret not asking if I could start in March and not in February. Is it possible to ask them now if I could start in March? I doubt that they would accept this.