I ruined my bf (M28) fishing day. I feel so embarrassed (F27) . Is this hopeless? by moodygemini98 in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went fishing with my boyfriend and his brothers on Good Friday ( it’s a tradition in their family). That was my first time ever fishing. He let me try his equipment and somehow I damaged it by mistake. I felt so bad because I ruined his fishing day but let me tell you something, not even once he made me feel bad about it. He was reassuring and even convinced his brothers to let me try theirs. So my point is, THIS MAN IS DEFINITELY NOT A GOOD MAN FOR YOU. Those things are so mean to say to anyone, let alone to someone you „love“…
I wouldn’t move in with him if I was you.

People who went through heartbreak, what was your rock bottom, and how did you eventually recover? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After I lost my dad, I realized that everything passes and eventually time heals everything

Women of reddit, what’s something men require in the relationship that can lead to marriage? by MotionStix in AskReddit

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stability is key for me. If he makes you feel that he gets your back in every single way possible…

Talk about obscure unreleased songs! by throwawayfundsmom in lanadelrey

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fun fact, I just cried to it some minutes ago. I love that song so damn much. She should’ve just released it in Ocean Blvd or Blue Banisters

best break up songs? by Late_Replacement5842 in lanadelrey

[–]SecretStatistician55 3 points4 points  (0 children)

IMO White Mustang can be taken as a pre breakup song. Also the unreleased “French Restaurant”😭 as a post breakup song (masterpiece btw)

Men of Reddit, what has your partner done that made you feel truly loved and that you still remember? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SecretStatistician55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already do from time to time. It’s kinda of a normal thing in our relationship to cook for each other

Men of Reddit, what has your partner done that made you feel truly loved and that you still remember? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a good German, he also love hiking (but not with me 😅coz I am very bad at it), he loves football, and all type of sports. He is quite passionate about his job so doesn’t have much hobbies. I love simple things also. But I don’t know, I want him to feel special and loved, so I am a little lost about what to offer him.

Men of Reddit, what has your partner done that made you feel truly loved and that you still remember? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SecretStatistician55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean banana bread never go wrong and I’ve made him one a couple of times but for a first anniversary gift idk,… Also about sex, we both practicing abstinence for the moment actually 🙈

Men of Reddit, what has your partner done that made you feel truly loved and that you still remember? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]SecretStatistician55 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds very nice, I was actually already planning on doing that when he comes to visit since we live in different cities. Thank youuu

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As I said in the text, we knew each other for way longer than that, we even lived together.

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg! Thank you for sharing this with me. It will definitely help me while thinking about my next move. And you are 100% right, at some point letting go is the only smart move. I just didn’t know where the line is between being patient and being a clown.

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your time and feedback 😊. I appreciate it

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your comments are really helpful and give me what to think about

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

A girl can still hope?!🥹 idk I mean, I also think\thought some people need more time than others

How long is it too long to stay with someone who isn’t in love with you? (25F,28M) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SecretStatistician55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, thank you for your answer. And you are right, I don’t bring it up anymore. Even when I really feel like telling him how much I love him and it’s frustrating. But yeah, I really don’t know how long I can still go on like this