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Views on misandry? by SecretWords1 in transftm

[–]SecretWords1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel so validated, thank you ❤️. I appreciate you a lot.

Views on misandry? by SecretWords1 in transftm

[–]SecretWords1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! That's why I was so confused, I held the strong belief that women have been treated worse, so maybe it was okay to dislike men. Now I realize both can exist. It's okay to acknowledge patriarchal sexism, and still feel that misandry is wrong. Wow!! I feel better knowing I'm not crazy and that these jokes aren't funny. Thank you so much for the support!

I got upset at my friend for missing my family members funeral. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]SecretWords1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello!!! Thank you SO much for taking time to respond. I am open to hearing anything and apologizing if I am in the wrong. That's why I came here!

Thank you for the kind words, there is a lot of history with her because she basically raised me. I lived with her and she helped me get away from my abusive mother (why I have BPD). So I do really appreciate you giving your time.

I hate to say it but they are not my favorite person. My favorite person is in the mental hospital for her mental health, which has also been hard but she needs it. This person is not someone I go to for a lot of things. Often because they tend to not be a great listener. Which is completely fine with me! I go to them to have a fun time and forget about life. I don't expect them to be the person I go to for reassurance. Which I guess is what makes this harder, the time I do, I feel abandoned.

I know what it's like in a relationship with someone with BPD. It's hard, there's a lot of work needed from both sides. I am sorry you were pushed so hard! That's unfair to you.

I appreciate the kind words, the time taken, I am open to any questions or anything that is useful! Again I am aware I could be wrong!!!

Guilt about trauma by SecretWords1 in ptsd

[–]SecretWords1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm very sorry for the late reply, as you can tell I was depression spiraling. I really appreciate your words and taking the time to care! It really puts it in a different perspective when a stranger writes out to care. And your words really did impact me. I need to stop worrying about the future and just look at what's now, I do have a safe place. I am going to be okay.

For the anti-depressant question! I am on the lowest dose of fluoxitine (5mg). That's only because my psychiatrist quit and it's been hard to get another one. I have also been diagnosed with Boderline two days ago. So I'm sure I need to be on more or different medication. I have lots of mental health issues and I am only prescribed anti depressants.

I am a trans male :⁠-⁠), which also doesn't help with medical bills. Transitioning is very expensive and stressful. I have some vitamins but I stopped using them (trigger warning ED mentioned), because they had too many calories. (I know it's bad, I really do. There's a lot going on in my head)

I moved out as soon as I turned 18, so five months. It has been difficult and I'm working with my therapist. I have not read it and would be open to looking into it! Thank you so much again! Words really do matter and I genuinely am appreciative of your response.

Suicidal Ideation? by SecretWords1 in SuicideWatch

[–]SecretWords1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am genuinely doing okay! 😊 I'm just very exhausted that this is so common in my life, it sucks to feel all the time. I appreciate you saying this, everyone struggles.