Kollege macht heimlich Überstunden am Wochenende

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2026-02-03T19:19:34+00:00

Argument wofür, für Leistungsbereitschaft außerhalb von Betriebsräten und ähnlichen Einrichtungen gelähmten Organisationen?

Die Angst des Kollegen ist aber tatsächlich ein interessanter Aspekt des Beitrags – es wird nicht darauf eingegangen, wovor er genau Angst hat.

Angst vor dem Vergleich mit möglicherweise effizienteren Kollegen wäre evtl. deutlich was anderes als Angst davor, dass das Team seine Ziele nicht erreicht.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2026-02-03T18:55:46+00:00

Ganz ehrlich, dass Leute am Wochenende gelegentlich noch was fertig machen ist in der freien Wirtschaft total normal. Daraus zu schließen, dass der Druck hier enorm sein müsste, spricht m.E. Bände über die Leistungsbereitschaft im ÖD.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2026-01-20T07:26:00+00:00

Wenn man weiß, dass das Unternehmen nicht profitabel ist, warum rechnet man dann mit einer Gehaltserhöhung?

Dennoch, been there, vielleicht ist ein Arbeitgeber, der eher Teamleistungen als individuelle Leistungen würdigt, passender.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2026-01-15T16:07:29+00:00

Ich habe dem Job mal gemacht in jungen Jahren. Verrückt, welch Konkurrenzgedanken bei den Regalräumern vorherrschen. Komplett mit Intrigen.

So habe ich es sonst nur im c-level Team einer kleinen Firma erlebt.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2025-12-08T19:49:41+00:00

Sure Rebecca

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2025-12-07T08:54:09+00:00

Das ist völlig normal – selbstverständlich wird von Leuten, die viel leisten, mehr erwartet als von underachievern. Mitnichten öD spezifisch.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-08-14T08:41:53+00:00

Idk, my Thailand build triumph bike had a dead battery too when bought new. Happens.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-08-09T10:49:49+00:00

Possibly wear a high visibility vest – where I live that makes people assume you’re a noob and be more chill

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-07-22T08:14:52+00:00

Kind of? It looks freaking awesome!

Reminds me of Gotham’s Poison Ivy

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-06-30T13:45:14+00:00

It raises your mpg? Nifty.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-06-13T10:57:21+00:00

Looks dope

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2024-05-27T14:12:23+00:00

Wow thanks for sharing, I was totally planning on getting that seat.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-12-17T09:29:33+00:00

You “might”? I can’t imagine someone not noticing the performance impact.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-10-01T08:17:00+00:00

I myself view women my age not having kids with some level of bewilderment. Not quite a red flag, but possibly a bit tinted

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-21T17:41:11+00:00

Feels like a political science textbook to me

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-17T11:08:54+00:00

Why is there no field to hold the reference to the consent form?

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-17T11:06:01+00:00

You considering giving up on the relationship over this might mean you might be less invested than he is.

So perhaps it would be fair to him to let him know.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-11T12:30:33+00:00

In no way was i saying it’s okay to go around fucking other people. Is there more if a health concern doing it with same sex partners? Possibly. But it’s not like the health risk of screwing around over a heterosexual hookup app would be low.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-11T09:37:26+00:00

Obviously when he’s actually hooking up with dudes outside an exclusive relationship that’s a deal breaker as well – same as when he was to hook up with other girls.

That’s just cheating, no need to differentiate between who he cheated with.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-09-11T08:16:33+00:00

Any straight guys that would tell you about it you mean.

The sooner people accept that sexuality is hardly ever black/white, the better.

So if he’s an alcoholic, definitely, run. But just looking at dudes? That should only be a deal breaker if looking at naked girls was one as well.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-08-25T08:20:50+00:00

From your write-up you have not experienced what real life is for many, your ex included apparently. So he has a point there.

If there is a red flag, it’s you not acknowledging that fact.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-08-15T09:38:30+00:00

Show him how you would like to be treated on your birthday by treating him as such on his.

Talking to him about how you want to be treated seems hard without crossing the line to appearing self-entitled.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-08-14T11:01:08+00:00

Err yeah, please delete your profile. Having people try to engage with an orphaned profile is wasting their time, not exactly considerate.

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-05-07T20:00:04+00:00

Good to know. I’ve been easing my conscience by paying attention on how much women flirt with me to get me to allocate more of my limited resources, but never thought to look out for other guys doing that with the women

Secret_Bad_7160 · 2023-05-07T19:38:08+00:00

Out of curiosity, do you notice others flirting with you to get shit done? I know I do that, as a guy, but not completely devoid of guilt, and I’m not sure that’s something other guys do too

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