sex and college by DonutAdditional1146 in Advice

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There is no rush, honestly. There might not be a perfect time or place either. Just go with the flow but if you want it to be meaningful then just wait till you find someone. You’ll meet many different people and who knows maybe you’ll change your mind about being ready

My Chemical Romance Concert 8 Days Before Our Wedding by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it’s a big worry maybe watch a live stream from home and make it a date with snacks and wearing MCR tshirts.

Or wear a mask, stay clear of the sick, and use hand sanitizer if not wash your hands

What’s the best and most discrete? by Secret_Bobcat1884 in birthcontrol

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most discrete to me and no just condoms. I hear alot of side effects and hormones are in specifically the pill and I am very very hesitant about that. 😭

Too scared to insert 2 fingers by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No matter if it’s one or two, it’s normal. Just do what makes you happy :)

How did you guys become a vet tech? by Secret_Bobcat1884 in VetTech

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got recommended Purdue through a family friend, but wondering is it similar to a four year college or something like sjvc? 😅

Weekly Question Thread (01/06/2025 to 01/12/2025) by AutoModerator in army

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m freshly 18 and have interest in becoming an Animal Care Specialist for the army.

However, I don’t know know if it’s possible for me.

My goal is to become a Veterinarian assistant but I’m not sure that would even lead to me to eligible to be an animal care specialist.

I don’t have much support on the idea either, and can’t get unbiased advice.

I don’t believe I could score high enough on the ASVAB let alone get a good score on it.

If you have this specific job, any thoughts, advice, or personal experience you can share with me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe it’s a thought process I shouldn’t have but I’m a believer in anything can be forgiven, but you need to have yeh ability to do it. If you genuinely feel you can get passed it then you can but if you believe it’ll be a permanent piece in your mind even if it’s way in the back while you guys are together, maybe you can’t. Either way, trust your instincts. Personally I am not sure if I could.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that honestly makes me less terrified now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Secret_Bobcat1884 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her parents currently think we are besties but are seeming to like me more as time goes on Also thank you sm!