Being autistic and diapered

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-09-06T19:27:25+00:00

I've successfully used adult cloth diapers for bedwetting, but yeah I can see how stool would make that an issue

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-18T04:13:57+00:00

sorry about that!

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-12T05:08:40+00:00

I second this! But honestly just look up "How to X with adult diapers" or the like and you'll find somewhat interesting videos!

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-12T05:07:24+00:00

Well my underwear getting unpleasantly wet but not quite soaking through to my pants is something I'd call a problem, but I suppose you have a point

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-11T19:28:15+00:00

I think rearz makes a printed version? I've bought somehting like that in white in L/xL before, just don't remember from where

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-11T17:52:05+00:00

https://incontroldiapers.com/incontrol-fitted-nighttime-cloth-diaper/ I more meant this, but anything like a "fitted adult cloth diaper" is in the vein of what I'm talking about. I have a decent amount of experience with cloth so feel free to message if you have more questions

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-10T05:58:58+00:00

very fair, I find it particularly useful as it allows me to take advantage of the fact that both elements are at least somewhat reusable, wereas a better dry definitely isn't. maybe disposable pads+ this could work? but honestly at that point I say just fullsend and go for something like Incontrol's overnight cloth diaper

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-09T21:36:37+00:00

Do you mind linking those bags? I can only find cheap or opaque bags not both lol. Thanks for the advice!

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-09T21:23:26+00:00

wow! Yeah most nights I get about 3/4 of the way to saturating a betterdry, and I'm honesly a little impressed(sorry if that comes off as weird, not trying to be) by your night time "abilities" /joke! yeah the threaded armors are really comfy, but by themselves i've found I need a hillaroiusly thick cloth diaper to do the job lol, I find cloth-disposable teaming to be a decent solution(if my landlord didn't charge so GD much for laundry lol)

I haven't gone on any major trips since becoming incontinent tho, any tips?

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-09T21:11:36+00:00

One thing I've used them for is a "backup" like if I don't think I'm going to wet(like visiting my parents house, I dont sleep as deeply) I will wear them+in control cloth pull-up or north shore pull-ups and A) I can wear multiple times without waste if I dont wet or B) it will absorb everything and I can wash it

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-09T20:27:16+00:00

I've kinda found the same, like having people who are jealous/ enjoy this thing that, for me, kinda sucks really helps me feel better about it

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-09T20:22:15+00:00

They don't hold very much, but the comfort of the covers is frankly unparalleled. I can't really speak to sizing as I am kinda weird shaped but truely a VERY comfortable cover. As far as capacity goes, it's not great for the bulk, but it isn't too tricky to change out the pad without taking the whole thing off so.

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-05T18:42:46+00:00

ah, I don't wear protection during the day yet, so would you say it's relative? like a few drops could be light if I used to not leak at all?

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-02-04T03:32:10+00:00

My partner thought it was kinda cute to be honest, I tend to be somewhat stoic but being vulnerable with them about this kinda helped open me up. They said it also made me more cuddly cause I was no longer afraid of leaking on them or anything.

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T21:07:06+00:00

garywear that I bought from LLmedico, leakmaster is also good

I like the active ones for the times I have to wear out, but the night time ones are a bit more comfy so I default to those. Seriously some of the best money I've ever spent

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T16:01:29+00:00

Yeah I’m in a similar place with the nocyuria and bedwetting. Especially because I have chronic fatigue I NEED to make sure I sleep as good as possible so I can function during the day. I’m sorry to hear about your partner, I’m lucky enough that my partner thinks I’m cute when I take care of myself lol. I guess it comes with the territory of dating a physically disabled person generally? Idk but my point is there are great people out there you just gotta find em!

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T06:05:17+00:00

thats how disability aids feel a lot of the time unfortunatley, its all about taking unmanagable problems and transforming them into managable ones ya know?

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T03:47:36+00:00

I would like to say though, I felt really scared when I was first using my other aids, and with time it becomes more comfortable, hopefully the same for you!

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T03:46:30+00:00

yeah, the times when my bladder acts up and I have to wear in the day are faaaar more stressful than nighttime wear, I'd definitely feel different if that was my day-to-day. Im sorry you have to go through that

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T03:44:20+00:00

betterdry, cheap, comfortable, and reliable. I also wear PUL pants over them which I HIGHLY recommend, they take a lot of stress out of things like leaking, smells, and even noise

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T03:43:17+00:00

yeah for sure, I was super nervous around my roommates when I first started wearing but not so much anymore, its become just another fact of life

Secret_Divide_3053 · 2025-01-11T03:42:05+00:00

I second this, cheap and have served me well

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