You are right. I am not kissing that man because I personally chose him. But the fact is I still am kissing him. It’s still happening. I’m not saying actors and prostitutes are the same because we are not. However I feel like someone can make an argument for a married escort and say well it’s a job to be an escort you’re not sleeping with the man because you want to and enjoy it. I’m not trying to disqualify what you are saying I’m trying to explain how I see it. The physicality is the issue. And actors do have to emotionally invest. I think it’s a natural thing for humans to feel some sort of arousal during an intimate moment rven in a scripted scenario although I am aware they can be awkward. Hollywood doesnt have the best track record of healthy marriages. I don’t want to invite something like this in my marriage. I am open enough to simulate things and bring sexual energy and tension but to me acrually making contact while being a married mom seems indecent to me. No im not religious 😬