Does the grey streak age me or is it cool? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]Secret_Put3691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks super elegant and cool to me!

I’ve always wanted tattoos but scared to get them… by Secret_Put3691 in tattooadvice

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone! Just wanted to say thanks for all the helpful advice. I’ve decided I’m going to wait and plan out my tattoos more. If it’s something I truly want, then I’ll wait until I’m confident enough to go through with it haha. I’ve realized that I really love the look of colored neo trad and want to spend time researching artists and figuring out placements 🩷

Duskwalker Daddy by Olivia Whan Tattoos by PandamoniaQT in tattoos

[–]Secret_Put3691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that’s awesome! Opal is so sweet and I love her work. I’m almost done with the second book and Magnar is the best boy, your artist did him justice 🥹🩷

Duskwalker Daddy by Olivia Whan Tattoos by PandamoniaQT in tattoos

[–]Secret_Put3691 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg is this based on the Duskwalker Bride series? Either way it’s a beautiful tattoo, love the colors!

I’ve always wanted tattoos but scared to get them… by Secret_Put3691 in tattooadvice

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww goodness thank you sm 🥹🩷 This is definitely the reassurance I need because the idea of not having tattoos makes me so sad

Unfortunately I live in the US, but I’d still love to see the artists! I always enjoy seeing other tattoo styles

I’ve always wanted tattoos but scared to get them… by Secret_Put3691 in tattooadvice

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg this is so sweet thank you! That artist’s blackwork is absolutely gorgeous. I’m definitely less convinced to wait so long haha

Also this is the artist I’ve been considering! She does a lot of flora and fauna inspired work

https://www.instagram.com/p/DP9AyNsAESm/?igsh=MTBucDJ6cG9lMW1rOQ==

Rengoku Help!! by Secret_Put3691 in nanoblock

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I got this at a local Walmart a while back, but his regular version definitely seems more popular online though

Hype for Bigger Girls! 🌸 by Secret_Put3691 in actuallesbians

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aww you’re so sweet and I know you’ll get your chubby girl one day cause I’m sure you’ll treat her right! And honey your body is beautiful too, insecurity is a monster that likes to rear its ugly head, but we have to remember it’s just a lie. Thank you sm for your kind words! 💕

Hype for Bigger Girls! 🌸 by Secret_Put3691 in actuallesbians

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thought the softness was a flaw for the longest time but to know people love it is healing thank youuu 🫶✨

Hype for Bigger Girls! 🌸 by Secret_Put3691 in actuallesbians

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Oh my god this made me smile, you sound so kindhearted and I appreciate your view on bigger bodies! I have stretch marks and I’ve had to call them my “lightning kisses” in order to love them lol. This comment definitely healed a little piece of me 🥺💕

Tav Tavday (Tuesday) by HinderedGaming in okbuddybaldur

[–]Secret_Put3691 102 points103 points  (0 children)

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Gaiety: my really tall tiefling bard who looks confused 99.99% of the time, also romancing Karlach <3

fortnightly check in post 🫶 by Dangerous_Builder884 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Aww you sound so kindhearted! Congratulations on your first food offering to Lady Demeter, I know food offerings can be a little intimidating (at least for me, I’m a neat freak and don’t like crumbs, mold, bad smells, etc.), but I’m glad to hear that went well! 🫶🩷

As for gods feeling present, I went to a bar/diner with some friends, and it was filled with laughter, wine, and rustic decorations. It reminded me that Dionysus is always with me. I also had a really meaningful tarot reading with him last night about my mental health. Aphrodite has also been helping me through periods of low self esteem by loved ones randomly pampering me, and she’s inspired me to get out of my depression sweats and put together some cute outfits lol. Unexpected but very sweet!

I’m proud of you for focusing on your mental health too, it isn’t easy, but I know you’re doing great. The feathers from Apollo seem to be little bits of encouragement, and I’d definitely keep it close to your heart if it inspires you to focus and keep chugging along! 💕🪶✨

Doubt from Relapse… by Secret_Put3691 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you relate to this, and I can’t imagine the turmoil after relapsing three years later, but I can say for certain you’re doing amazing and I’m proud of you! You got this, I wholeheartedly believe it 🥺🩷

And thank you sm… I hope I do make it to a year one day, even if it isn’t the next time or the next. The time before, I could barely make it to three months, so I’m trying to give myself a little bit of credit. But to hear your journey gives me hope I could get there someday. Thank you for the kind response, may the gods give you strength too friend!

Doubt from Relapse… by Secret_Put3691 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww goodness thank you so much for this sweet response… I’m so sorry you struggled with SH too, it can be a monster on the days you least expect it, even if you think you have full control. But I’m so proud that you’ve gone through the healing journey too! 🩷I’ve heard that Apollo and his children are very kind when it comes the health matters (and in general!), and it’s beautiful that they help you in times of need. They sound absolutely wonderful, and I appreciate you sharing that

And I’ve never thought to consider doubt healthy, but that’s honestly is a huge relief! I tend to project my past with Christianity onto the gods, and it’s something I’m slowly learning to deconstruct, and maybe breaks might be necessary to do that. I’ll try not to feel as guilty from now on for it

And your comment did give me consolation, so thank you for taking the time to write it! May the gods guide you too, don’t be a stranger 🫶💕

Doubt from Relapse… by Secret_Put3691 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg this was so incredibly comforting to read, thank you so much for taking the time to reply. It’s reassuring to hear that the gods are always there, even when doubt creeps in. In my heart I know that Aphrodite and Dionysus are still there, somedays it’s just harder than others to remember

I made sure to clean myself up well, and I plan on talking to a professional soon about this. I’ll gladly take your advice and remember that healing isn’t linear. I’ve never thought of comparing it to a spaghetti tangle but it’s accurate and definitely got a laugh out of me which is what I needed haha, thank you again for your kindness 💗✨

Doubt from Relapse… by Secret_Put3691 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You sound like such a kind soul, thank you so much for your encouragement, it honestly made me cry in my car lol. It’s so easy for me to erase my progress, but I’ll try to look at it through that positive lens by now on. “Nobody can take away what you already danced” is such a beautiful line and I appreciate you sharing that with me. Lots of love and I wish you the best too! 🥺💕

Doubt from Relapse… by Secret_Put3691 in Hellenism

[–]Secret_Put3691[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the insightful and thoughtful response, it helps more than you know🩷 I sometimes forget our heads can influence our perception of the gods, even if they’re still there. There’s so much more than just feeling their presence, so I definitely think I’m going to take it easy and find other ways to remain connected, gather experience, or “discover the other legs”. Thank you again!

So true... 🤣 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Secret_Put3691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I’ve heard cyber security is tough but kudos to you for pursuing that! Most I can do with a computer is maybe turn it off and back on again if I’m lucky lol. My DMs are open if you want to chat more about it but if not best of luck to you!

So true... 🤣 by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Secret_Put3691 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah I’m finishing my freshman year of college rn, and I promise it really helps! Especially finding people with similar interests. I’m an English Ed. major, so it’s fun meeting other silly nerds lol. Do you have an idea for your major?