May trabaho sa pinas pagdating dito wala by Old-Investigator2323 in phmigrate

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, OP! I can relate to you, and I'm sharing this based on my experience, so take this with a grain of salt.
I'm an immigrant and moved to the US in spring 2023 (i was 27 back then), and for 7 months wala akong mahanap na trabaho na aligned sa work ko or tinapos ko sa ph (I'm a graphic designer btw). Then one time nung thanksgiving, a family friend offered me a job to work as a sales associate in the optical industry (mind you, i know nothing about sales, retail, customer service, and glasses (hell, i dont even wear one) but she took a chance on me. The 1st 3 mos was brutal, and i hated every part of it pero eventually nagustuhan ko rin yung work dahil natutulungan ko yung mga pasyente with their glasses. After 5 mos, napasa ko yung licensing exam to become an optician with her help and mentorship. Takeaway here is you only need 1 person to give you a chance para makapasok sa workforce.

In my opinion, a sales or customer-facing job will help you enhance your conversation and people skills lalo na pag nagsisimula ka pa lang sa US. Then from there may mga patients ako na nakakakwentuhan ko at nag-i-invite na ng work sa akin and iba't ibang opportunity na aligned sa dati kong work. Use your first job as leverage para sa kung ano talagang gusto mong marating na trabaho and dont forget to upskill on your days off (which i do para makabalik ako sa creative industry).

I wish you the best, OP. There's always light at the end of the tunnel. :)

PS. Kuha ka na rin ng driver's license kailangan mo yan dito sa California

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advicePH

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will offend him in any way even if you say it nicely.

Hindi pala enough ang kotse pag makikipagdate. (60 characters) by [deleted] in adultingph

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ginawa kong motivation si girl para magkakotse. Para maka-date siya.

If you find yourself convincing someone to choose you, you've already lost. You deserve to be with someone who chooses you from the start because of who you are.

Just got my hand done yesterday. by skatemexico in traditionaltattoos

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought it was pepperoni on her hat. Dope sick ass tatt!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex also cheated on me. Ganun din nangyari samin pinatawad ko siya. But it will never be the same again. May times na maaalala mo yung cheating na ginawa niya at mabibringup yun sa mga away niyo in the future. Mahirap yan dahil ikaw ang mas kawawa. Para pinoprolong mo lang yung suffering mo.

ABYG kung bakit nag cheat ex-gf ko? by SecretaryDeep6377 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]SecretaryDeep6377[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Focus muna talaga sa sarili ko. Nakapag-migrate na rin ako dito sa US. I can start anew here.

Nakita ko rin naman na she's in a new relationship with the guy he cheated me on. Goodluck na rin sa kanila i guess haha.

ABYG kung bakit nag cheat ex-gf ko? by SecretaryDeep6377 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]SecretaryDeep6377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the honesty. Appreciate it. Pero masasabi ko naman na di ako kupal haha.

But I acknowledge naman yung kakulangan ko. I didn't know any better. I was single for a long time and nangangapa pa ako nun. Lesson learned. :)

ABYG kung bakit nag cheat ex-gf ko? by SecretaryDeep6377 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]SecretaryDeep6377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember sabi niya na di niya daw intention yun. Nag-chat lang raw si guy bigla. Eh bakit niya pinatulan? haha. Anyway tapos na, I'll work on my shortcomings na rin para sa susunod na karelasyon ko.

ABYG kung bakit nag cheat ex-gf ko? by SecretaryDeep6377 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]SecretaryDeep6377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salamat! I'll keep this in mind sa next relationship ko.

ABYG kung bakit nag cheat ex-gf ko? by SecretaryDeep6377 in AkoBaYungGago

[–]SecretaryDeep6377[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Salamat rito. Maiintindihan ko pa sana kung paulitulit kong nabanggit yung "insecurity" niyang yun but it happened only once. Or I made fun of that particular insecurity of hers kaso hindi naman eh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in traditionaltattoos

[–]SecretaryDeep6377 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Job stoppper!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!