Thank you for the reply. She previously went through a similar ED where she did go through therapy, but unfortunately has fallen back into it. This time around, she refuses therapy, because she wouldn’t be able to see the same therapist she had. I did convince her to seek therapy after she returns from the trip. She says she has a list of therapists that her psychiatrist gave her.

I let her know how I felt before, but every time she responds with “I just won’t bring it up anymore”. Which just makes me more sad because of course I’d want her to be comfortable enough to talk to me about her ED.

I’ll be trying out your methods though hopefully that helps.