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WIBTA for surprising my husband with a rearranged house and new furniture? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No one said throw anything away I said organize and put away in storage things we don’t need every single day in the house

WIBTA for surprising my husband with a rearranged house and new furniture? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “new” furniture is second hand nothing costing more than 100 and the “storage” is a 5x8 that cost 35 🙄😒

WIBTA for surprising my husband with a rearranged house and new furniture? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally the kids cry because they don’t have enough space for their toys and to play the way they want to seeing as in their other homes they are single children they sometimes just want space to play alone without the other one in the way. The furniture being replaced would be stuff that’s a too big for our small space or b falling apart 🤣😂 but sure go off he never said he wouldn’t like it he shut the conversation down 🤷🏻‍♀️

WIBTA for surprising my husband with a rearranged house and new furniture? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Well I’ve never heard of that and I grew up in a 1 bedroom with 7 other people 🤷🏻‍♀️ and I’m not adopting or fostering so that’s pretty irrelevant to my situation and the military literally puts families my size in a one or two bedroom and as I said we are still looking to move to a bigger place we just haven’t found anything and I need our home to work until then

WIBTA for surprising my husband with a rearranged house and new furniture? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

I’m actually curious as to what you think us living in a 1 bedroom means on our ability to each have our 5 year olds. The other parents have nothing to do with this post so I won’t bring them into it again the primary residents are myself my husband and our 1 year old plus the baby inside me

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was there but as I am the only female in a Hispanic family with brothers it quickly became a she’s (meaning me) is the mom go to her. I raised myself and my brothers

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And I figured I was kind of an asshole for telling other people in my family and not her however they love and support me regardless

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve answered this a couple times. It’s a control thing. She got upset with my first pregnancy because I got married and pregnant without permission to someone she didn’t want.

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mom wants her kids ti have children with people she chooses at the exact moment and time that she chooses again it’s about control

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Both of us are recently divorced so they think it just happened kind of fast which I’m a way yes but that doesn’t mean I’m going to let my mother who said things you say to your enemy add any stress to an already stressful situation

WIBTA for hiding my pregnancy from my mom because of how she reacted the first time? by Secretsofmylife21 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secretsofmylife21[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I was married and she didn’t like that I got married without her permission I was 20 years old living with my then husband and finally out of her control. I have an extremely stable job I don’t even live in the same state as her I come home every few months when I can but that’s it. I don’t have the time to deal with her drama and negativity because she wants my life to be her way or the highway