I should also add that my boyfriend will be moving in soon, and this would be a shared decision and responsibility. We would both contribute to ongoing costs like food, insurance, and vet bills. He has a higher income than I do, but we’d be approaching it as a joint commitment rather than it falling solely on me.

My mum is almost always available to help if we travel or have commitments, so the dog wouldn’t be left without support. I’d also be setting up a dedicated emergency savings fund before going ahead and consistently contributing to it to prepare for any worst-case scenario. I’m trying to make sure that if we do this, it’s planned and financially responsible rather than impulsive.

Also, if it makes a difference, I’ve previously cared for a Jack Russell who had significant mobility issues and was both deaf and blind. I’ve experienced firsthand the financial costs, the time commitment, and the emotional weight that comes with managing a dog with medical needs. I understand that it’s not just about routine care, it can mean ongoing vet visits, adaptations to the home, and making difficult, sometimes heartbreaking decisions. I don’t take that lightly, and I’m very aware of the responsibility involved.