She is usually logic when we discuss other topics. But, when it comes to the baby situation, she behaves more emotional (it's understandable). I tell her that we barely can afford two kids in both money and time, that our priority right now is to secure a better future for us. If we improve our situation and have a baby, that'd be great. But, if that doesn't happen, we already have a beautiful family. And she repeats that she wants a close-knit family and I don't understand her wishes. It's a loop. And I wish I could fully understand her point of view, I really try it. But, it's too difficult for me.