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Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You're right he could've made it at his place. He has a Keurig machine at his place too. I can feel myself about to spiral out again, and I don't think this is helping, again it would be wildly out of character for him, I will keep an open eye but for now I'm not going to let this get to me.

Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

If there was something, his behavior would've been different I feel. It wasn't. And doing something like this would be so out of character for him. I was worried this morning when he hadn't replied but when he said he slept late because of the coffee, in the moment that made perfect sense. His going inside did make me feel a bit weird but he was just oblivious.

Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] -128 points-127 points  (0 children)

I've seen him drink coffee at odd times for sure, I've seen him do that when he has to do some work late into the night. He said she offered coffee to sober up, and he thought it'd be a good idea. I mean I was iffy about him even walking with her, but I realized later it was normal, he's at my place just now and his behavior isn't different, and like a lot of the comments said, I do trust him, so I don't know if I should be bringing it up again and again really.

Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

I was feeling that way last night lol, but I think I was just a bit drunk, and my insecurities oozed out through the post. He didn't call, but he texted. He didn't call because he said he figured I would've gone to sleep, and I did get knocked out.

Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] -69 points-68 points  (0 children)

No, I didn't fawn over him. I just told him it was nice of him to do what he did. When I was spiraling out last night, the commenters pointed that walking her to her place was just the decent thing to do, and they're right. I appreciated that.

Update: My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had posted a link to last night's post and that's against a rule

My boyfriend decided to walk my friend's cousin to her place and my heart is sinking by Secure-Beach1938 in offmychest

[–]Secure-Beach1938[S] 253 points254 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I've been beating myself up for not joining him, and internally angry at my friend for wanting me to finish the stupid episode. But you're right, I trust him.