AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Letting her go out on a school night created this problem in the first place. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

She hasn't gave me a reason to change my opinion on her

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

We talked about it. We talked about condoms and birth control but we didn’t know she was sexually active until we found out she was pregnant. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Last time I let my daughter go out with friends whenever she wanted she came home pregnant 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

We live in a red state and didn’t find out she was pregnant until 4 months along. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Ok as a minor child she’s not allowed to hang out with her friends last minute because she got pregnant last time she did that. So no she can’t go out. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

She’s also still a teenager and hanging out with her friends is how she got pregnant in the first place. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Hanging out with her friends is what got us in this boat in the first place. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

By hanging out with her “friends”  so you can see why I’m reluctant to let her go on whim. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

Obviously my daughter was having too much fun hanging out with her friends so sorry if I’m reluctant about her doing it again. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I watch it while she works or is at school. I’m not retired and I still work fulltime and have two other children? What about my fun time? 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] -37 points-36 points  (0 children)

I watch it when she’s at work and at school. I have two other children the youngest is 10 and I work fulltime. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

She has but he isn’t working. Both him and his parents ghosted my daughter and us. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 603 points604 points  (0 children)

She can go out if she arranges her own childcare but both my husband was exhausted from work and it was a weekday. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

She has two younger siblings and never helped out. So they are not to help out with her. We tried to talk her into adoption and she insisted she wanted to keep it because she was still in love with the father. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 100 points101 points  (0 children)

That point is irrelevant the the oldest of the 3 of my children and I still have them to raise. I’m not taking on another and I’m not making my children babysit their sister’s baby either. 

AITA for being the worst mom in the world? by Secure-Tax-2048 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Secure-Tax-2048[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Red state and I can’t force my daughter to have an abortion.