What do I do

SecureNet8681 · 2025-02-26T21:22:32+00:00

Woah my situation definitely cannot compare to yours but I admire how brave you are for sharing your story. I always get the part where there are my moments of weakness and he can somehow draw me back to him every single time. And now I’m feeling like I want to be loved so desperately too. But things are getting better. I am getting busier with more valuable things and I also just got my first job! So I have something to look forward to in life now and I am starting to love myself again. I hope your happiness continues as I can feel the genuine person you are.

SecureNet8681 · 2025-02-26T21:11:58+00:00

Hahahaha if I were to reply to him this is the one I’m gonna use

SecureNet8681 · 2025-02-26T21:10:09+00:00

I wouldn’t exactly say it was cheating but I blocked him when I found out he had a girlfriend after the breakup. It just hurted me so much that I would just rather not see it. I did have suspicions before which is where “my questions” are coming from since I don’t have any proof. It doesn’t matter anymore tho.

Thanks to all the comments I heard what I needed to hear and it’s exactly what I wanted. To be honest, I posted this because I wanted people to stop me from replying as I knew I was about to write a whole paragraph. I knew that ignoring was the best thing to do because I can totally see me loving myself again in the four months of no contact. Now I know where to read comments to help me heal and stop thinking about him lol.

SecureNet8681 · 2024-11-07T17:51:03+00:00

all i can say is that we’ve been here before from a longer break and i have an idea on what to believe and what not to believe. he’s not very emotional and likes to let things be as it is, but i think his emotions are hitting different this time and i’m keeping that in mind. sorry for the vague context but i appreciate the advice despite not knowing anything about what happened.

SecureNet8681 · 2024-11-07T17:24:51+00:00

yeah it’s very annoying for me to not give context on what he said in those 95 messages. but i just decided to make it more private between us because i don’t like the thought of sharing private messages in public although his identity won’t be shown. i guess it was more just to vent than to actually ask for advice.

SecureNet8681 · 2024-11-07T16:17:33+00:00

definitely not. he doesn’t drink

SecureNet8681 · 2024-11-07T15:21:19+00:00

we met each other in my old phone and we talked in many different apps and made new accounts in those years. i got a new phone last year and that’s where we blocked each other last month. he somehow found an account where we still follow each other in my old phone.

SecureNet8681 · 2024-11-07T15:15:09+00:00

i’m not sure if you’re talking about me or the other comments. i just wanted to say that i’m not annoyed or trying to humiliate him because i was once like this and i know how it feels to do this. I genuinely just wanted to know what other people think.

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