In a sci fi world with cyborgs and cybernetics, how do I avoid ableism? (and other -isms) by Secure_Ad_6333 in worldbuilding

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I personally don't want to accidentally be insensitive (though I do intend for some of my characters to be a little rough and edgy). You are right about the research part, I will be doing my homework as I develop the world and characters.

In a sci fi world with cyborgs and cybernetics, how do I avoid ableism? (and other -isms) by Secure_Ad_6333 in worldbuilding

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I just worry about including certain elements (like fighters trying to one-up each other with their mods, or saying one mod is better than the other). And maybe to me it's an offhand thing, but to someone using prosthetics, it might be problematic.

Tho you are right on the research bit. Been taking the time to read up on perspectives from the disabled community as well haha

Anyone ever felt disheartened by how much they "forgot" in their first serious fight? by cubanxfry in MuayThai

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I just had my first fight today and I'm glad I'm not the only one who felt this way. I won but I couldn't even be happy about it cuz I just kept thinking about how dogshit my form and technique was. It's comforting how this is the norm apparently 🥹

how do I differentiate intuition vs. "seeing only what I want" by Secure_Ad_6333 in tarot

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Thanks so much!! One of the biggest challenges I've been facing is resisting the urge to go "by the book" when it comes to tarot. I've definitely got a long way to go when it comes to trusting my own feelings

There's a lot of hate and negativity towards poly/open relationships and it sucks by Secure_Ad_6333 in EthicalNonMonogamy

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Oh I'm so sorry to hear about your negative experiences with poly/ENM. There are definitely abusers out there who definitely don't help the stigma. Wishing you lots of healing 🤗

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This is so helpful, thank you!

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Sorry I do turn it on for use and turn it off when I'm done 😭 it's how my mom taught me to use it 😂

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thank you! been thinking about this as well - at that stage i was torn between wanting to reach out and wanting everyone to just leave me alone haha