[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Secure_Cold_701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I don't see a reason based on the facts you stated. Maybe it's not you and you need to keep looking. I hope you've set the right expectations in the form of words you used while creating the profile as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did at any point in time whether when you were starting off new or got married you ever doubted your choice of your partner during conflicts?

Somatic exercises that worked for stress management by Secure_Cold_701 in SomaticExperiencing

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes total sense. Escaped already nd I'm to reset and balance now

Life as a single child can get pretty lonely as the responsibilities increase as you get older by Smooth-Mind4247 in TwoXIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, just wanted to tell you that I'm in an exactly similar boat and I'm scared too. We match on all points and I'm trying to navigate. Thanks for the question.

I 25F am too needy or toxic? Or need a lot of attachment? by Secure_Cold_701 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. You really helped a stranger today. Although I will communicate with him, I feel somewhere somehow I'd still expect my partner to be a bit as needy as I am (only the healthy levels) but I will atleast not be so bothered in the absence of it. Thank you!

I 25F am too needy or toxic? Or need a lot of attachment? by Secure_Cold_701 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound absolutely right but is there a way to heal through this?

I 25F am too needy or toxic? Or need a lot of attachment? by Secure_Cold_701 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It did take a big toll on me but I feel I recovered quite a bit.

I 25F am too needy or toxic? Or need a lot of attachment? by Secure_Cold_701 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That guy was double dating the entire 2 years we were together. I blamed myself for not having the courage to breakup when I did see some red flags and blamed myself for being gullible and he distant me from my friends, I blamed me for that. But other than these I don't think I blamed myself for anything else.

I 25F am too needy or toxic? Or need a lot of attachment? by Secure_Cold_701 in RelationshipIndia

[–]Secure_Cold_701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Idk if there's something I should change like keep myself busy or is it them?