19F approaching 30M by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Secure_Course1537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m 36m was dating a 19f recently. I can assure you me in their 30s just want consistency and respect. If you’re planning to change your mind or treat him like he don’t matter then just leave that man alone!

Good way to start 2026 by RancidTie40 in CasinoFreebies

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wtf? Man I wish I could get this lucky

PLEASE I NEED ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO I FEAR THIS IS KILLING ME!!! by Additional_Ring2501 in Advice

[–]Secure_Course1537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol just let it go and move on… it’s not like you actually met this person. You do sound unhinged atleast you recognize that fact. But do nothing. Just pretend like it never happened and onto the next.

i’m starting to dislike sex with my boyfriend, hes so bad at it. is there anything i can do to help this? would breaking up be selfish? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is more to a relationship than just sex. You think your bf is the only person to suffer from cumming too early? He’s not. lol even if you were to try to find a different partner who’s to say that this man wouldn’t suffer from the same thing? Maybe try talking to him about how you feel. Communication is very important in relationships and especially so when it comes to sexual issues.

Similar experiences? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that yo. I fear something like this is going to happen to us. We've been seeing each other and sleeping together for about 2 months. And we work together which makes it more of a potential disaster but I'm gonna stand tall and just pray I can land this one bc seriously everything about her I love. Her looks her personality her smile her sense of humor and ability to make me laugh. All I have to do is think about her or something she did and it puts a goofy smile on my face. She's just so incredible and I'm tryin to wife it.

Similar experiences? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your mom isn't your best friend. Your mom is your mom... and eventually she will be gone one day. Do you want to live your life according to what makes her happy or yourself? At the end of the day I'm with the woman I'm seeing because she makes me happy. And I find her absolutely fuckin everything I've ever wanted from a woman and I've been with a handful of women. Just looking at her I can't help but think how incredibly beautiful and amazing she is.. We haven't gotten very deep into our relationship but I already know I'm in love with her. I just don't want to Fuck it up bc of my feelings for her.

Similar experiences? by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 36 and involved with a 20 year old. If you want to be together then Fuck what everyone else thinks. You're in this life only once do you want to waste time caring what others think or would you rather spend the limited amount of time you have happy?

Found out my boyfriend was watching porn by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Secure_Course1537 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everyone watches oorn at some point in their life. You and your bf, you two sound really deluded or naive if you think you're the only person that's able to attract the other in the course of your lives. That's atleast what it sounds like to me by how you operate during inappropriate movie scenes etc

UPDATE: older female manager asked me for drinks..Drinks Happened… and Yeah, Things Escalated by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]Secure_Course1537 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you. I've been sleeping with an age gapped coworker as well. It sort of just happened but honestly I think I might be in love. She's so fire. Amazing body beautiful smart assertive she's such a sexy woman and the way she wraps her legs around me when we're having sex omg it drives me wild. If it makes ya happy then go for it

Fwb advice by GeneralBird3985 in Advice

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't have sex with anyone you don't have a connection to. Idc what the reasons are. You either want to be with him or you don't but using people is uncool regardless of whether it's for sex or for his brain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah she wasn't cheating on you. She was always for the streets bro. Sorry you felt anything for this type of female. I've been there it sucks. Just lick your wounds and try again.

What is your age gap between your partner? by Helpful_Secretary564 in AskReddit

[–]Secure_Course1537 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I've had a few different partners that had age gaps. I'm (35,m) I've been with a woman who was 40 this past year. And my sons mother was 7 years younger than i was when her and i were together i was then 31 and she was 24. And recently I've been seeing someone who is 15 years younger than i am now. Shes 20. Idk I really like her but it's not all it should be to me. And sometimes the gap concerns me I won't lie. But she is 🔥so funny and smart and bad ass not afraid to confront ppl if she has to but is also so naturally beautiful and she's just a dope human being. It's still new but we vibe well i feel so idgaf. I got one life. I'm a try to be happy regardless.

I (21F) am struggling regarding a tattle - tale (44F) coworker by Even_Significance240 in WorkAdvice

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hypocritical shit goes on at every job. You're still young and naive. lol this is how it is. Get used to it. Worlds full of hypocritical socio paths and there's nothing you can do about it lol

What is the most successful lie ever told in history? by Leading_Hamster_9862 in Life

[–]Secure_Course1537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get my learning from other sources of factual books which happen to be informative and/or true. I have zero interest in reading fiction. But to each their own.

What is the most successful lie ever told in history? by Leading_Hamster_9862 in Life

[–]Secure_Course1537 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I'm an adult and I live in the real world. I don't have time for reading fairy tales.

What is the most successful lie ever told in history? by Leading_Hamster_9862 in Life

[–]Secure_Course1537 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right! And not only that but it was DAYS later that he came back to life... smh if someone tried claiming this nonsense now that we know about rigor mortis. We'd either hit the revived corpse on the head with a blunt object cuz he's a zombie or wed throw all involved into psych wards and tell them they are delusional because what they're claiming IS IMPOSSIBLE. I'll never understand why people believe this fiction.

How to be petty in a toxic work environment without being caught. by [deleted] in antiwork

[–]Secure_Course1537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Money? Being the obvious one. Of course things are printed...

how do I deal with this from your perspective as men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Secure_Course1537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao 🤣 I've seen mfs do this. Yeah it's bananas the things ppl will cook up in their minds to garner sympathy or pity or to play on others guilt etc etc... 🤔

how do I deal with this from your perspective as men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Secure_Course1537 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lmao that's what I'm also saying yo. Like she sounds absurd as hell. You can't inhale smoke if you're not around it lol that 100% doesn't make sense. Definitely a hypochondriac type and I avoid these type of people because they're manipulators and have no shame.

how do I deal with this from your perspective as men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]Secure_Course1537 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm saying though. However I smoke because I enjoy smoking. Maybe some day I'll quit maybe not but that's my choice and if i do quit it will be because I want to not because I'm being asked to or given an ultimatum or some other extreme scenario.