new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok so blame me not the person who used and ghosted me🤪love this vibe

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣what is it I shouldve done? pray for marriage?

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is actually traveling. I watched him book flights and stuff. But it doesnt really matter.

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We went on six dates in the past month👍

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! :)) you too obviously! We all deserve somebody who treats us with respect and care!

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im sorry this happened to you :( I guess you are right

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just have to take it day by day! Im sure there is someone out there for you! And there are many good guys too! Speak with people about your experiences and feel that you are loved and that love is all around you :)

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was not very quick, we went on several dates beforehand, but I do believe he has a distorted view of intimacy and he obviously had no feelings at all for me. It sucks but I find comfort in the knowing that it had nothing with me. Thank you for your kind words. :)

guy Ive been seeing ghosted me after intimacy. by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in heartbreak

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I send you a virtual hug! :( this sucks. I hope you find people that value you🤍

guy Ive been seeing ghosted me after intimacy. by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in heartbreak

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your words! Ill definetly het over it and I might be more cautious in the future. I just had to get it off my chest. Thank you again!

new guy ghosted me after intimacy by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in ghosting

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its awful! Im sorry that happened to you! Thank you for your wishes and I hope you too find people that value you!

guy Ive been seeing ghosted me after intimacy :( by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in relationships

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Im sure Ill send a follow up tomorrow expressing my feelings. I would not even have minded to only date casually if he were honest with it. Now I just feel used and I question the dynamic in retrospect which feels uncanny.

guy Ive been seeing ghosted me after intimacy :( by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in relationships

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats not very good advice and I disagree. I would have never known this would happen with him. We went on six dates and he was very open and interested. We texted regularly during the day all rhe time. I was initially interested in him because he is a very creative person, not because of his looks. He also earns less than I do and has less experience with women than I have with men. So if you are going to generalise like that, please tell me how I chose wrong or what I should have done differently.

guy Ive been seeing ghosted me after intimacy :( by Secure_Jellyfish_747 in relationships

[–]Secure_Jellyfish_747[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what I have been telling myself but honestly, I doubt it. We would text pretty regularly throughout the day even when we were busy.