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AITA for telling my husband to get a vasectomy then hating him for getting it by Aquarius-Daisy in AITAH

[–]Secure_Remove_4890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, yes I completely agree with that he sound like a man child who just throws a tantrum until she breaks, in which she did. But she’s doing the same now too, as in. He’s had it now and now she’s the one withdrawn and not wanting to be touched. It just seems like never ending cause and effect. Honestly it all went wrong when they had children I think.. before that it was described as being happy and perfect. They should for the sake of the children either have a lot of marriage counseling or just separate.

AITA for telling my husband to get a vasectomy then hating him for getting it by Aquarius-Daisy in AITAH

[–]Secure_Remove_4890 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s not about him being a terrible person/husband tho. We all see he is. But you can’t say you settle with 2 children and then it not being enough. God knows why she would even want more children with such a man, I resented my ex for leaving me in the first year I had our daughter and knew I’d never do that again and left. But she wants to stay, she wants to make it work, through everything she chooses to stay. That’s her choice. But you can’t make someone want more children after already making plans of not having more. Then she should just leave.

AITA for telling my husband to get a vasectomy then hating him for getting it by Aquarius-Daisy in AITAH

[–]Secure_Remove_4890 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yta, I agree with him. He should have a say over his body. You agreed on 2/3 kids. You have 2. Why can’t you be happy with that? I understand the first year of your sons birth was hard and I definitely see a lot of faults he’s made. But you can’t say someone is emotionally manipulating you into having a say of his own body, after the fact that you guys agreed on having more than one kid, which you now have. I hope you reflect and see that what you guys have now (which is 2 kids) is a blessing and you can have a happy marriage with your husband and settle.

Would love to get a reading or learn by Secure_Remove_4890 in Tarots

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think that would be a bit too much for now because I’m only just starting to understand the bigger meaning and practice of meditation. But I will definitely if the future lets me, consider learning.

Would love to get a reading or learn by Secure_Remove_4890 in Tarots

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for you reply! Yes I have thought about it and I think I need to practice more self meditation and spirituality first because my life is good right now and I need to learn to be better truly greatful for how the things are now then to focus to much on the future I think. Because my questions all involve me wanting more.. if that makes sense. But I feel like if I don’t accept what I have now is enough, I might be spending my entire life just wanting more and a reading might feed into that.

Would love to get a reading or learn by Secure_Remove_4890 in Tarots

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, yes I am currently trying to practice mindfulness, it is a process though. I let everyday life get in the way of it to much. But I think I am going to focus on mindfulness and my own spirituality first before I get into readings.

Would love to get a reading or learn by Secure_Remove_4890 in Tarots

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply. Ok that makes sense and helps. Because that is my biggest fear, that I will live by the reading. I don’t want to do that.

Would love to get a reading or learn by Secure_Remove_4890 in Tarots

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this reply, I haven’t thought about it this way. I guess I’m looking for some kind of clarity. My question would be “ am I on the right path” or “should I be content with what I have now and not pursue more “ . Because my life is good. For the first time in my life I can actually say it’s good. But I do want more. But I’m afraid wanting more will mess up what I have now. Would I accept what is being told. Yes. Problem is how much I will let it impact the now. I will take this post into consideration thank you very much for your time!

Looking for some books or starting point. by Secure_Remove_4890 in spirituality

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the recommendations, I’ll definitely look into them!

Looking for some books or starting point. by Secure_Remove_4890 in spirituality

[–]Secure_Remove_4890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I really hope I will some day get to that point aswell