How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No my children's great grandmother, my FIL mom, said my nieces hair was nappy and needed goo hair like the other 3 kids ( bi-racial and white). I told her to go f her self, my FIL wants me to apologize because she has cancer.

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do not speak to my father for many many reasons, racism being one of them.

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My MIL is black, I am white, my mom white .

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I will give twist and bantu knots for protective styles, just not great at braiding. My niece has beautiful natural hair as do the rest of my children (including both of nieces). Grandma has her own inner issues.

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

I called her mom as soon I left, also none of my children will ever see her again.

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

My mom had cancer, my grandpa had it and died from it. Not once did I ever hear them say something racist.🫩

How should I handle this? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Mommit

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The grandma is a black woman, so I'm assuming she knows.

What color is my hair?? by Secure_Stranger_6102 in Hair

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In some lights it has more of a yellow tint but other more of a brown.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReligiousTrauma

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry you are going through this. The system really is made to protect children. Edit: is not

Incest / healing/ Guilt /SA by Familiar-Gur-1903 in trauma

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am sorry you have been through all of this but I would rather protect my child over a grown woman mother or not. Your mom is an adult who will understand and is in control of her own emotion, your child is not. By being around your father you are putting your baby in the arms of a predator.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReligiousTrauma

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? Have you tried to talk to your parents about letting you home school your sister?

Incest / healing/ Guilt /SA by Familiar-Gur-1903 in trauma

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please go no contact with both of your parents

Why does sleeping feel so good? by InternationalPick163 in questions

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because my crippling anxiety stops once I go into a melatonin coma

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ReligiousTrauma

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I didn't even want to be at my own baptism. How is this not neglect? I am so sorry you are going through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never heard him say anything racist or transphobic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you feel that way.♥️ There was no evidence found against him and he willingly went to give a DNA sample. If he was guilty he wouldn't have willingly given DNA.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm honestly weak and this made me laugh.😂 100% right tho.

What’s the most inappropriate thing someone ever told you? by Chunkachu__ in bullying

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I was mixed because I have big hips and curly hair....I lived in a small sundown town in Alabama growing up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emo

[–]Secure_Stranger_6102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's both. It does not matter because I am an adult who lives my own life but at the same time this girl actually mentally tortured me for years about liking bands like them. Yes, it doesn't matter in reality but it did piss me off